Indeed, mother in the household and father as primary bread winner is the optimal family arrangement. It would've prevented the creation of this abomination of a thread at the very least.
That's rather idealistic, given how different people's aptitudes for different things are. The father might be the more nurturing one, and therefore better suited to being with the kids. The mother might be more ambitious/intelligent/etc and able to earn a better wage than the man. There's also the fact that some jobs are so crappily paid that neither parent has the option to stay at home.
Also sucks to be you if your mother is a nightmare and she's the one you get to be stuck with as a kid. Arguably people like that shouldn't be having kids in the first place, but unfortunately they do. Pretty much throws any kind of optimal arrangement out the window.
I'm not sure how serious you are with this comment, but I figured I'd hedge my bets and reply anyway.





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