So, the whole Maryden thing blindsided me and I had to put my controller down for a bit to process it. At first I wasn't happy - Cole deserves better IMO - but I calmed down after a bit. In a way I guess it makes sense, though I would have appreciated the option for the Inquisitor to fill that role if that's the way it had to be. After all, she was the one who took him in, helped him, loved him and wanted him around. But whatever, maybe the devs thought it would be weird and maybe it would have been. But then I realised that Cole, my Inquisitors best friend in all the world, had nothing to say to her. Then I just got sad. The entire cutscene was short overall, and was basically Cole ignoring the Inquisitor and getting his girlfriends attention.
Later in the DLC, when I was chatting to people, every single companion had a dialogue wheel with at least one or two options (even Sera, whose personal quest my Inquisitor had refused to do) but Cole didn't even have a dialogue wheel.
While exploring the DLC all my companions had things to say about what was happening and got at least 2 options to trigger dialogue while in the field. I got just one with Cole and it was a short one-liner. When Cole had his one bit of ambient dialogue, it was about bringing a rock back for his girlfriend.
All my companions had something to say or give to my Inquisitor - gifts, words of thanks, friendship, support, regret at leaving and so on. There was nothing from Cole.
I just can't believe it. All the time my Inquisitor spent with Cole, learning about him, standing up for him, helping people and helping him to help people and there's nothing to acknowledge it in the epilogue?
Cole seriously affected me in the real world. He really brought home how important it is to help people in a very tangible way and I have noticed a significant difference in my behaviour and thoughts since I started playing Inquisition. I thought he was the most wonderful character I've ever met in a fictional world and he made me exquisitely depressed by highlighting how rare people like him actually are. Now I feel like that experience has been cheapened significantly. Either folk at Bioware decided that nobody likes Cole so they weren't going to bother with him at all, or they're trying to say something about human Cole - perhaps that he becomes selfish or ignorant to how he treats his friends? I'd honestly prefer the former, the latter makes me feel terrible (though from what I can see, spirit Cole is not much better in terms of content).
I just don't get it. I'm so sad. And I'm even sadder at the fact that this has seriously marred my enjoyment of the DLC. Everything else was great, amazing really, but it just couldn't distract me from this disappointment. Cole being used as an example several times in DLC promotion maybe got my hopes too high, but even without that, the Cole content in comparison to everyone else is just breathtakingly lacklustre.
Last night I dreamt my Lavellan committed suicide
My poor Lavellan. Her companions and advisors all go off to do their own thing and she's lost her hand and her Inquisition. Her lover is trying to indirectly kill her and everything she knows. The cherry on top is that her best friend has basically dumped her for someone else. She seemed determined at the end but I don't know if realistically she'll be able to mentally overcome all of that.
Someone cheer me up? Is spirit Cole better? Does he have anything to say? I'm in such a terrible funk right now and have been since I finished the DLC last night.