Quoting out of context, i see. Classic. Next time quote the whole thing and bold for emphasis. Quoting like this you're completely ignoring the point of that post and what it was adressing in the first place. But i can see how you got things confused. Unless you were purposely trying to mislead others and create further confusion?
First sentence, "because if that's not up your allley and you don't wanna play it that way, what do you care?" refers to non-heterosexual romance options being precisely that, options, therefore if some of those options are not "up your alley" and you don't want to take them, what's your problem with other people going for them? How other people choose to make use -or not- of available optional content regarding anyone's sexual orientation does not really affect your own game in any way, you can choose to ignore said content. The availability of said content does not force you to go for it, yet some people think it does because chances are they are already bigoted against the groups who might prefer them.
Second sentence, "i hope the game devs never add the choices you want for it. " is in reference to those who complain there aren't certain dialogue options in-game they could use to be bigots in-game as i suspect they already are IRL. Dialogue options, unlike romance options, are not as easily avoidable, they just pop up on the wheel and you have to read them all to know what you're doing. Things like homohobia, racism, and sexism are very real issues from the world we live in every day, and many of our fellow players are subjected to that sort of treatment themselves, so with these other human beings in mind, i wouldn't like to see such demands be answered to your liking, becaue a player who's been bullied over their skin color or sexual orientation should not take a break from their reality in a videogame and encounter the same thing there too. Making such options available just to please a portion of the audience of dubious human quality would be in my opinion a mistake and might harm the series too. And i think it would show true skill from the writers if they manage to stick to the world they built and make things work in that context instead of patching it up with bits of IRL hateful remarks from groups of people we all know are what's wrong with this world.
"Variety in romance options and SJW" and "why don't we get the option to be racist a-holes in game" are two separate -if similar- parts of the discussion on this thread, maybe you missed that.
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You can flirt with Dorian all you like, or you can just not, and you can choose not to start a romance with the guy, but going through easily 70 hours of gameplay encountering racist/homophobic/transphobic dialogue options throughout the entire game, that wouldn't be the same thing. You can't avoid that, even if the player chooses not to use those options, they've already seen them. On the other hand, it takes some time and work to get to see Dorian's naked behind, just because the character is gay doesn't mean you will have to see his gay scenes.
Non-heterosexual/heteronormative romance content can't be equated with bigotry dialogue options, the former are inclusive and not necessarily in your face unless you go for them, while the latter would be unavoidable to the eye and would contribute to further normalize such a despicable behaviour. You can still make an evil Inquisitor working within the Thedosian context just fine. I made a human mage, and made her so Andrastian i couldn't stand her so i deleted her file. I managed to make myself a character i loathed so much i terminated it. Without attacking random characters for being black, homosexual or trans.
Of course, your mind's all set, you won't care about any of this, but may i point out you might have gotten your EA games mixed up? I think the game you're after is The Sims. Go mercilessly starve sims to death and torture them in the pool without a ladder, have them pick up a fight with their black neighbours or violently reject a same-sex sim approach. The world of DA already has its own social, cultural, religious and political issues you're deciding to ignore because that fantasy fiction doesn't mirror reality to perfection, but The Sims is a blank page, have fun. Go wild with all that freedom.
Back to what this thread was originally about, i'm looking forward to seeing what Weekes does. I liked much of what he did for DA:I so i'm curious what he'll do now that he's the lead writer. I hope he destroys all my expectations and trolls us all. As i'm equally intrigued about Gaider's new secret project, very much intrigued.