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[Cassandra Saturn]

it's actually a name of an title on my post on any site i use. for example, i use facebook to talk to my friends here. below is my comment on it. you might agree or not agree.

"Well, this post is by me. i can tell you why i had to deal with jerks and haters, bigots etc etc who gave me a hard time just because i am Transgender.

i point them out and tell them that they don't even know exactly what's it like for Transgender people. even me. it's hard to find a job in a place that society accepts who you are and supports you, lets you work instead of turning us away from a job we'd like to work.

even i lost everything i had when i opened up about myself in 2013. way before the whole Cait Jenner's Transgender thing was "thing"/"fad" then. in end, i gained new friends, but lost my own old friends and family. so i stand with my own new friends. since then, it's been difficult for me to find a job, let alone surviving on little amount of food and drink while under the family's house. they won't even give me a time of their day to talk to me or even give me bit of food, drink or cash to pay for food of my own.

i'll tell you, it's worse for transgender people. but for me, it's way more worse. simply because i am deaf and transgender. thankfully, i have good friends to begin with.

i'm still going on strong despite setbacks and challenges. i can't give up. i gotta make it to my goal as a woman."

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also, related to Transgender life..

"Support Transgender Community"

"Transgender/LGBT teens/kids/adults, they will experience nightmare of their own in a world that views them as not important, it will lead them to their suicide. we must change that by showing them that world will accept them no matter what. we will love, cherish, care for them. they define who they are and us as whole. ~ Korra"

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in related topic to profile pictures.. here's one.

"Profile Picture"

"i don't even have "passable" female profile picture yet. but i don't feel comfortable with myself currently to use the already recent and week old/monthly 2015 photos as profile picture. i still have appearance of a male, here is so much hate i have for that. i just really don't like that.

hence why i use my favorite profile pictures.

it's really hard for me to find a place that might let me start my hormone treatment for free.. to take it for two years. but i need real certified doctor who might point me in right place to try out. any recommendations?"

the posts really detail how much i feel like every day with things going on. it's just hard to deal with, but i try to manage.

[Isichar]

As usual I don't know if this is the most appropriate outlet for these things Cassandra

That said for what it's worth I feel bad for those struggles transgender people go through. It takes a lot of courage to do and it can be hard without people there to support you. A woman I was talking to recently just told her parents she's going to go through the process of becoming a male, and despite them being really old school religious they were really supportive of it which in happy for.

Find people who support you for who you are. They are your true family and friends.

[Jehuty]

I don't hate you. 

[Cassandra Saturn]

As usual I don't know if this is the most appropriate outlet for these things Cassandra

That said for what it's worth I feel bad for those struggles transgender people go through. It takes a lot of courage to do and it can be hard without people there to support you. A woman I was talking to recently just told her parents she's going to go through the process of becoming a male, and despite them being really old school religious they were really supportive of it which in happy for.

Find people who support you for who you are. They are your true family and friends.

 
 

I don't hate you.

the hate part is not toward me, but toward people who classify themselves a Transgender.

"i still have appearance of a male, here is so much hate i have for that." meaning i hate my male image, i hate everything about myself. it just digusts me.

[Degenerate Rakia Time]

i hate everyone

[Fidite Nemini]

I think someone is mistaking this forum as a blog.

[Jock Cranley]

Hate turns me on.

[Sigma Tauri]

Hate turns me on.

 

I hate you.

 

Do I make you complete?

[Isichar]

I think someone is mistaking this forum as a blog.

From my understanding a lot of Cassandras original posts on her topics are pulled right from her blog.

[Jock Cranley]

I hate you.

 

Do I make you complete?

[Fidite Nemini]

From my understanding a lot of Cassandras original posts on her topics are pulled right from her blog.

 

Smells like attention seeker then.

[Cassandra Saturn]

From my understanding a lot of Cassandras original posts on her topics are pulled right from her blog.

yes, it's copy of my posts on facebook. it's something i want to share with, to show other Transgender Community that they're not alone out here and here are people who will support them. much as i have supported them despite my current living.

Smells like attention seeker then.

then why are you even bother to think that way?

[vometia]

the hate part is not toward me, but toward people who classify themselves a Transgender.

"i still have appearance of a male, here is so much hate i have for that." meaning i hate my male image, i hate everything about myself. it just digusts me.

If it means anything, btdt etc. I'm not sure I'm any more "passable" than anyone else, but I gradually accepted myself as just being me without any particular label or expectation and it eventually seemed to work. Nowadays I just class myself as any random woman who's concerned about her weight. It gets better.

I guess transgender (or rather transsexual) is something that happened to me rather than something I am. I dunno if that point of view fits anyone else, but it works for me. I'm not ashamed of my past, but neither will I be defined by it.

[Fidite Nemini]

then why are you even bother to think that way?

 

If you would reword that question into something that makes sense, I could try and answer.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

All together now.

It's because you lied when you were 17. 

[Isichar]

yes, it's copy of my posts on facebook. it's something i want to share with, to show other Transgender Community that they're not alone out here and here are people who will support them. much as i have supported them despite my current living.then why are you even bother to think that way?

You are posting personal blog things on a gaming site. Again, well I appreciate what you're saying this really is not the best outlet and you've done so a number of times in the past and have been called out for it so you should know better.

If it means anything, btdt etc. I'm not sure I'm any more "passable" than anyone else, but I gradually accepted myself as just being me without any particular label or expectation and it eventually seemed to work. Nowadays I just class myself as any random woman who's concerned about her weight. It gets better.I guess transgender (or rather transsexual) is something that happened to me rather than something I am. I dunno if that point of view fits anyone else, but it works for me. I'm not ashamed of my past, but neither will I be defined by it.

A good way to view it I think

[Cassandra Saturn]

You are posting personal blog things on a gaming site. Again, well I appreciate what you're saying this really is not the best outlet and you've done so a number of times in the past and have been called out for it so you should know better.

it's not personal blog things, it's public post. if it were personal, i would't have posted it.

If you would reword that question into something that makes sense, I could try and answer.

well, i can't word it better than what i can say. sorry.

[Olivia Wilde]

I don't hate anybody...but I also don't give a sh*t if you're man, woman, transgender or German Shepard

 

But people throwing such things in my face does get on my nerves after awhile

[Isichar]

it's not personal blog things, it's public post. if it were personal, i would't have posted it.

It is, and again you've been called out on this point a number of times in the past.

Anyways I won't push it. My goal isn't to start an argument or derail the thread. I wish you the best of luck and I'll leave it at that.

[Fast Jimmy]

They hate us cause they ain't us.

[Br3admax]

Let me take a blind man's shot in the dark, but maybe it's because you feel like you need to announce every single thing you've ever said your entire life and look like a bigger attention ****** than the Kardashians. they're prejudistic trash.  

German Shepard

eye twitches uncontrollably

[malloc]

.... they hate you because you are obnoxious fam.

[This is the End My Friend]

 

eye twitches uncontrollably

 

Yeah, the idea of Commander Shepard being German is just... no.