After taking a look for your claimed dev post that a dev thought the toggle request in the explicit content thread "was not indicative of anything" and found there seemed to be no existence of this post. Perhaps, it was missed. Since you know of this post could you find it?
"If you're not interested in T-related content, from a game theory perspective, you have absolutely no reason to pursue a compromise."
And no reason to engage on the topic.
p. 78 of the "an open letter to Bioware Regarding Explicit Content", Bryan Johnson:
"I May be the only one to respond, does not mean I am the only one who has read.
There is a lot of people that work here and lurk, we discuss things that happen on the forum or other medium all the time.
Also as was indicated by Helios you are not going to go to the polls for every little thing. If I had to guess someone in our focus tests would have brought this up as something they wanted if there was a significant portion of the audience that actually wanted it.
Will we fund a poll/survey explicitly for this? I see that as very unlikely. I believe the onus is on you to prove there is a market for it.
Note, by far that is not the only time he expresses this view point, this is simply the first one I found. Intermittently, he goes into this quite a bit regarding the cost/lack of market.
Regarding the latter bit: then what you're asking for would be more similar to an echo chamber. Granted, there've been some pretty unfair comments made about the request, but forums are not really designed for closed off comments in isolation. If somebody says "I want X", saying "I don't want X" is a pretty fair counter.