"At least one each" = no less than one each, but possibly 2 or more, each, gay and lesbian characters. Not seeing where you are taking offense at that.
I do play straight female most of the time, because I am a straight woman, but I am hoping there are equal numbers for all orientations.
As far as I'm concerned, "at least one" also pertains to straight male and female romances.
As long as it's a good, interesting romance, I don't need or want more than one option--if I don't like the option I am offered, I can always just play a single character. It's not a dating sim, after all. The romances make it a little more fun to me, but I can live without 'em.
I think that is easy to say when, in a BW game, your character has always had a plethora of choices.
I probably misunderstood you though
When you said "Equal numbers of romances, beginning to end, for male and female player character. At least one option each for gay and lesbian player characters as well," I took that to mean you'd be okay with like, 4 male LIs and 4 female LIs, with only one from each group being gay. Which frankly would suck. (But would not surprise me if they did that.)
I'm just saying, in ME, my character has had two choices. Yours (if you play straight females) has had four. Granted, two of them suck lol
And in DA, my character has had five choices, whereas yours has had ... nine? I think. There were so many straight dudes in DAI it's hard to remember lol
I don't "need" the romances either but let me assure you that it sucks when you see other players' characters getting loads of choices while you're forced to choose between "that one guy" (possibly two) or nothing at all.