I'd like the romances to stop being made as if there were made by teenage boys where the reward is sex. I can't speak for the other adults in the room but sex has almost never been the 'end' reward of any relationship other than a one night stand. Most of the relationship happen post becoming sexually active with your partner not before in my experience yet in the world of bioware its no sex till late in the game then its have sex and the romance arc is over. WTF? What relationship is like that?
Sex usually doesn't happen months after you start a romance in my experience except when I was a teenage boy and sex did feel like it was the end reward. As an adult sex happens pretty early on in a relationship and its not a one time thing.
As for this idea that we should have romances without sex??? Really what strange world are people living in? As adults sex is pretty damn important for compatibility. I can't see myself investing months and months with someone and not knowing if we are sexually compatible and i don't know any ADULT on a personal level that has been dating someone for months without having sex (excluding long distance relationships.)
I am not advocating sex for sex sake only that as an adult my experience with relationships is that sex is something adults usually have within the first month of dating. And its not the long drawn out process that is presented as the reward for this relationship. It is in fact an activity that adults continue to engage in as their relationship both matures and in some case falters. I am not advocating a repeatable sex scene as there is no need but for the love of god stop making the reward for pursuing X relationship arc equals sex with said person and then the romance pretty much ends.
When I think of ME1 I think the biggest mistake of the story was that the sex scene happened on the way to Ilos and not on the way to Virmire. Imagine the Virmire choice if you had Romance Ashley or Kaidan? Imagine going to your cabin in ME2 and seeing a picture of your LI and knowing that they were dead because of the choice you made in ME1 or knowing they were alive because you let that effect your command decisions. And imagine if you heard comments of people wondering if your choice on virmire was made purely based on the tactical situation or if your relationship condemned a crew member to die? All this great material is LOST because Bioware treats sex like a reward for exploring romance content.
I'd like to see NPCs that are not under your command to be Romance options. Far too often in Bioware you are the "Boss" sleeping with your "employees." How about most romance options be non crew members non squad mates?
I want ADULT stories, mature stories not teenage stories. Part of adult experiences is romance and they are not over after sex and there are consequences for romancing people under your command and that should be explored.