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#301
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He can't make the decision whether his trash or not for her. It's up to her to determine whether he is trash or not. He can make a decision for himself on his trashness but he can't make one for the "dame."

I don't even believe none of this because it's Bunz but I'll operate under the assumption that it's real. His apparent case of low self-esteem has nothing to do with her. That's on him if he wants to break it off, is what I'm saying. He's not required to consult anybody on this decision he made. With that said, if it's real, in my personal opinion, he'd be dumb af for ending a relationship under the assumption that she's too good for him without talking to her about it. But again, he's free to do that.


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Mixed-bags like us.



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Getting drama already, how soon is too soon?

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Getting drama already, how soon is too soon?

Probably now. Shouldn't you still be in the honeymoon phase?



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Getting drama already, how soon is too soon?

 

Dump dat hoe and move on son.



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Dump dat hoe and move on son.

Never hesitate to pull that trigger



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I don't even believe none of this because it's Bunz but I'll operate under the assumption that it's real. His apparent case of low self-esteem has nothing to do with her. That's on him if he wants to break it off, is what I'm saying. He's not required to consult anybody on this decision he made. With that said, if it's real, in my personal opinion, he'd be dumb af for ending a relationship under the assumption that she's too good for him without talking to her about it. But again, he's free to do that.

 

Low self-esteem/self-confidence and lack of backbone gets the dames drier than the sahara and increases the chances of one getting cucked and/or dumped.

 

Bunz should learn from me, it's never about whether or not I'm good for the dame, it's if they are good enough for me.


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Getting drama already, how soon is too soon?

It's never too soon for drama!!!

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Low self-esteem/self-confidence and lack of backbone gets the dames drier than the sahara and increases the chances of one getting cucked and/or dumped.

 

Bunz should learn from me, it's never about whether or not I'm good for the dame, it's if they are good enough for me.

Low self esteem is not on. That **** is unattractive, women from my experience like confidence and someone that takes charge.

 

Might be the alcohol talking at this point tbh



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Low self esteem is not on. That **** is unattractive, women from my experience like confidence and someone that takes charge.

 

Might be the alcohol talking at this point tbh

 

Correct, even early on a man has to be assertive,make his intent known and escalate, or else wind up wasting time with/orbiting a dame with no interest or one that does have interest, but ultimately loses it since she has no clue that you reciprocate it.

 

This is one of those things I've had to learn the hard way, Lol.



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Correct, even early on a man has to be assertive,make his intent known and escalate, or else wind up wasting time with/orbiting a dame with no interest or one that does have interest, but ultimately loses it since she has no clue that you reciprocate it.

 

This is one of those things I've had to learn the hard way, Lol.

People have it twisted because they think being in control means aggressive. Like nah, you can be smooth but still go on your direction



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Speaking of snagging gals/dames/lasses/dimes: Man I walked into Macy's and all the corny pickup lines I played out in my head before I went to the mall went down the drain as soon as I saw all the lovely ladies. I didn't even have the balls to try and shove my business card into their hands at least, which is what I was there to do. Walked away defeated. One of these days I'mma stop being a punk in the face of human interaction.


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Speaking of snagging gals/dames/lasses/dimes: Man I walked into Macy's and all the corny pickup lines I played out in my head before I went to the mall went down the drain as soon as I saw all the lovely ladies. I didn't even have the balls to try and shove my business card into their hands at least, which is what I was there to do. Walked away defeated. One of these days I'mma stop being a punk in the face of human interaction.

 

Remember the old saying, "no plan survives first contact with the enemy" or in other words,make **** up as you go along like Bioware. Approach and say something that suits the situation and let it flow from there. The more you think about things, the more you stumble around like a fool and either end up doing nothing, or botching the interaction due to not thinking on your feet properly.

 

A bad approach is better than no approach as well, as with a lot of other things, practice makes perfect.


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Remember the old saying, "no plan survives first contact with the enemy" or in other words,make **** up as you go along like Bioware. Approach and say something that suits the situation and let it flow from there. The more you think about things, the more you stumble around like a fool and either end up doing nothing, or botching the interaction due to not thinking on your feet properly.

 

A bad approach is better than no approach as well, as with a lot of other things, practice makes perfect.

I gotta take that to heart for next time. I had it all planned out and I was like, "Yeah, I'm ready to spit some game". Then it was just like, "I can't even walk up to them". I was trying to use my business cards as an excuse to create conversation, which is probably a good idea, but I cracked under pressure. Got many more business cards though so many more excuses to break out of my shell.



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Speaking of snagging gals/dames/lasses/dimes: Man I walked into Macy's and all the corny pickup lines I played out in my head before I went to the mall went down the drain as soon as I saw all the lovely ladies. I didn't even have the balls to try and shove my business card into their hands at least, which is what I was there to do. Walked away defeated. One of these days I'mma stop being a punk in the face of human interaction.


Just shoot your shot bro. Just be confident because you are THAT ninja . Everyone had THAT ninja inside of em (pause) just need to know when to bring him out .
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Just shoot your shot bro. Just be confident because you are THAT ninja . Everyone had THAT ninja inside of em (pause) just need to know when to bring him out .

I have a "You need me in your life" line in my head now. Hopefully I'll act like that ninja and actually, confidently say it.


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Just shoot your shot bro. Just be confident because you are THAT ninja . Everyone had THAT ninja inside of em (pause) just need to know when to bring him out .

 

It helps that the more you're attracted to a dame, the easier it is to let the Ninja loose. When that happens, I have zero reservations about the interaction and my mind is completely focused on the two of us.

 

One thing that really helps this is to limit the amount of time one spends viewing smut and taking matters in one's own hands so to speak. Lifting and it's associated T-boost is another help.


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It helps that the more you're attracted to a dame, the easier it is to let the Ninja loose. When that happens, I have zero reservations about the interaction and my mind is completely focused on the two of us.

 

One thing that really helps this is to limit the amount of time one spends viewing smut and taking matters in one's own hands so to speak. Lifting and it's associated T-boost is another help.

Damn. Me and Gianna Michaels were hitting it off pretty well too.


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