Women not having the right to vote had nothing to do with patriarchy.
Women being the responsibility of men is no longer the case. Even so, this is also not a sign of patriarchy. If anything, this is a great privilege for women, as you women benefit from alimony and child support and you're almost always guaranteed to get the children in a divorce, after which men can only hope to ever see their own children again. Many of them don't, yet they still have to pay their ex-wife alimony and child support.
Because men are expected to take care of their wives, it puts a great burden on their shoulders. Many men are forced to work crappy jobs and work over-hours just to support themselves and/or their families. Even after a divorce, men still have to pay for their wives and children, while only the women get child support!
Men also take up all the dangerous or crappy jobs for minimal pay. When is the last time you saw a female garbage collector, or a female miner? Is this evidence for patriarchy too?
How about the fact that almost 100% of all homeless people are men?
Or the fact that over 90% of successful suicides are committed by men?
Or the fact that the people living below the poverty line are primarily men?
Yeah, that patriarchy is definitely working out for us men!
No serious historian or intelligent person believes in your feminist definition of the patriarchy. It is very much a feminist boogeyman that doesn't exist in reality.
Okay, amongst all of the assumptions in this post sticks out this implication that patriarchy/matriarchy is, in some way, objectively preferable for the gender in control. I do not believe it is, and I do not support the practice of men being given the more dangerous, difficult, grimy, or inconvenient roles by default.
If you do, we'll just have to agree to disagree about whether that's okay.
Where I do point and laugh at you, is your dismissal of patriarchy as a term in the face of the overwhelmingly reality of history.
When you say, "women not being able to vote has nothing to do with patriarchy," you ignore the fact that the word "patriarchy" is, quite simply, a term for a society in which women are not permitted the same degree of autonomy and influence, i.e. to vote, as men are. You can keep saying that, by all means, but in doing so you redefine the word to your own perception rather than actually addressing it as it is used in academia.