Why do my game choices matter to anyone else, if I want to dress my characters in wildly impractical armour I should be able to do so without the hysterical condemnation of others. I don't tell you how to play so please extend the same courtesy. And real life armour was highly stylised I may add, usually with male characteristics, for example Roman armour.
And frankly the DAI armour's for both sexes were hideous.
And you are perfectly free to do that with all the various mod sites out there. I certainly don't care if you want to mod all your characters into fetish outfits. It has no effect on me. It does however have an effect on me when people start demanding Bioware should cater to that in the base game.
The game is meant to be realistically styled (don't bother replying to this about how it includes magic - you know what I mean by this). Hence, people wear clothes in that style.
Now if Bioware suddenly decides they actually don't want to make serious fantasy games, they want to make sex games set in a fantasy universe, I'm sure they will go ahead and put those types of outfits in the game. And in that type of game, there is no issue with those types of outfits - there is a time and place for everything.
At the moment you are perfectly free to either -
A ) Buy an actual game designed for sex. Or -
B ) Mod the outfits you want into the game.
Both seem perfectly valid options to me. What doesn't seem like a valid option to me is -
C ) A company who wants to make a realistically styled fantasy game should also provide outfits appropriate for a sex game. For the same reason you shouldn't expect them to include anime hair styles for your character.