
Wha...? I'm not even going to address your need to mention that you're totally not a homophobe or anything hey guys I've had gay friends before! but why did you hate not being able to romance Dorian if you're a straight male and "don't do gay not even in games"? Am I completely misunderstanding you?
The reason others dislike what you call "player-sexual" characters is because they feel forced and unbelievable. Characters should be written as people, that is to say individuals with unique backstories, personalities and sexual orientations that are not influenced by whether or not someone might want to romance them. To make them all bi, or whatever you want to call it, is just bad writing.
I mean, I'd love to romance Cassandra (as a female), and I'm kind of bitter I can't, but I'm not upset at Bioware for making her straight. She's straight. That's a part of who she is as a character, just like Solas only being into elves or Cullen not being attracted to quanari or dwarves. I'd 100% prefer believable, well-written, distinctive characters than being able to bonk whoever I wanted.
And because it needs to be said, a bisexual person isn't not bisexual simply because they haven't had sex or been in a relationship with both men and women, similar to how a straight person isn't not straight if they haven't had sex or been in relationship with the opposite gender yet.
What have you been smoking? - Why is it homophobe (as a straight person) not to want to engage in homosexuality, even in games? (IMHO that's just normal - I mean I am not prosecuting gays or something and I am for gay-marriage (well, not really, but that's because I am against straight-marriage, too...but as long as straight people are able to get married I think gays should be able to as well!)...haven't you read my posting? - I've had gay friends in the past (!) and I respected them just like any other human being (after setting boundries, as one of them did like me "that way" and I couldn't reciprocate and didn't want to lead him on)...sure being unable to romance Dorian is logical (from a writing POV), but (call me strange or childish or whatever) I just don't like being restricted this way (I feel a little like a child who can't get his favourite toy -.- as bad as that sounds, but IMHO he's one of the few interesting characters in DA:I (not that I don't like the others, but damned his background story makes him very very interesting to me...that only men can have a go it him isn't cool IMHO (no, I don't have Bioware for that, I just don't like it!))
Of course they aren't - really - bisexual if they couldn't imagine going after any other person of the same sex sexually who is not the player (there's characters like say Iron Bull and Isabela who are totally bisexual, but other's aren't, so I think player-sexual is a good description (unless you got a better one?)), they are straight but willing to make an exception for the player who impressed them! Maybe that's lazy writing but at least it's fun for the player
and in games I prefer fun to "believable writing" (that term is almost as bad as "artistic vision" (Mass Effect 3, enough said) - that we puny mortals are supposedly too stupid to grasp anyway -.-), as long as it's not totally bonkers!)
Now, I think I get it (took me long enough...damned, in my defense: I just got up and haven't had coffee yet!): Why I am stating not to be a homophobe (more or less)? - Because I don't want to be called that (political-damned-correctness -.- I hate it but it seems to be the norm today...If it were only me, then political correctness could go bugger itself (pardon the expression but I hate political correctness!))
Well, I'll stop here - hope you read on, not only the first paragraph, as I was not really fully awake while writing that -.-
greets LAX