I want him to change his mind. Because it would mean Lavellan is just as good a person as the old elves.
But if your Lavellan wants to help him tear the veil, go for it
Okay. I just finished Trespasser for the 3rd time. *fans self* somebody hold meeee ;-;
Anyway, what I don't understand and can't discuss on Twitter because spoilers, why in the world would Solas make the effort (I know the few years of peace before death blah blah) to help Lavellan, his LOVE (direct quote, too), defeat the qunari AND draw her near so that he could save her life and THEN watch her in her dreams yettttt ... He can't for some reason oh I don't know, NOT kill her or whatever when he tears down the veil? I just don't get it. Someone help me. You can see his love, it's quite obvious in his expressions and the feeling behind his voice, soooo would it be too much to ask to geez I dunno, not leave Lavellan in the cold, heartbroken, only wanting to be with you and nobody else, I mean just whyyyy? I know if you pick the option to do it with him (heh) he refuses because he doesn't want you to see what he becomes but ugh, I can't bear to think of him tearing down the veil and watching Thedas burn knowing that his lover is out there and he likely knows where she is at all times, I bet he keeps tabs on her! In fact, there's something else I wanted to ask!
Before you get to his cutscene and fight the qunari mage, there's a big wolf statue and you start fighting a mix of qunari enemies, Cole yells out, "There! He can't far from her, or it hurts him!" HES TALKING ABOUT LAVELLAN RIGHT? Please say yes.

It's just, if he knows she's out there and he loves her why isn't he protecting her by keeping her near him or something? He says nothing about it, just "I will save the elven people, even if it means this world must die." And "I am not Corypheus. I take no joy in this. But the return of *my* people means the end of *yours." ... I tell myself he could've just said, "the return of my people means the end of you all", because that would include Lavellan dying, but he says yours, as in the others like you but not necessarily her. Am I making sense?

Also the fact that they keep saying IF they make more DA content is really starting to worry me. My emotions are like bubbling up inside, I'm desperately attached to Solavellan and it would literally make me FEEL sad for this story to end here. They MUST make a new DA! They're making a new ME and Shep's story is over, they're taking a chance! Take a chance with DA puhleeeeze (or I may actually die inside) (not really but there's a hole in my soul, man) (parentheses rock) (wooooooo!)
Ps: I'm so sorry this turned into mush-novel-blah-blah. It's just... FEEEEEEELINGS. You guys know what I mean!!!