Not necessarily.
While I'm all for the renegade choices not always backfiring, renegade or its equivalent shouldn't always result in better results than paragon or its equivalent either. It should be balanced.
Ruthlessness isn't always pragmatic, and has backfired as much throughout history as it has succeeded. It really depends on the situation.
But my problem with it is that along the way Renegade changed from a pragmatic person to just a jerk who is a huge di*k to everyone around him. Renegades should be manipulative. Paragons should be compasionate.
Example: "My wife was killed by X"
Paragon: I understand your pain
Renegade: We'll make them pay
But so far all we have is:
P: I understand your pain
R: Cry me a river
I see no reason why a renegade would tell that person to just stop being a pu**y, when he gains nothing except hostility for it.
They should be pragmatic and get better results than a paragon, with the downside that they dont feel that nice in the end about themselves. That is what would make it a hard choice.
If we find a wallet in real life with a few thousands in it, it would be a paragon option to return it and seek the owner. What do you gain from that? Probably nothing, but you feel nice about yourself
Renegade would be keeping the wallet, you gain money. You dont gain moral satisfaction. That is all. Very simple, and could actualy be tempting.
Your mistaking ruthless and pragmatic with being a dick, ruthless and pragmatic actions tend to have reasoning behind their actions because they seek gain something by doing so. Being a dick is well basically doing actions for the lolz for no reason what-so-ever giving no thought into the consequences of their actions.
This. While Paragon isnt done to badly, renegade has been mutilated, to a point where entire meaning changed. Some renegade options were done well, especialy in ME2, with the gunship repairman, zaeeds mission, the Tuchanka Krogan and Miranda loyalty mission. That is what renegade is about, not shooting yourself in the foot.
Also, some choices being marked as Paragon or Renegade, even though they arent either - IE: Rewriting or Deleting Heretics, or chosing Quarians or Geth