What in the world did he have left for not to choose the qun?
I never said that he should or should not have returned to the Qun.
I said that it was his choice to do so.
He didn't always have the Chargers. He could have found a new mercenary company, become a freelancer, joined the Inquisition unfettered by his ties to the Ben-Hassrath, gone from brothel to brothel finding redheads (mmm, redheads) to bed and drown his sorrows until he could face the world again.
He didn't. He made his choice.
And honestly, if he expected me to chose the Chargers over the Alliance, he should never have brought the Qunari request to my attention in the first place, or asked me to decline the offer. Or, he should have left the Chargers behind, and have it be a group of Inquisition soldiers holding that ground instead of his hired mercenaries.
There are any number of other ways this could have played out.
But the bottom line is this: he chose to bring the Alliance offer to me. If he wanted me to refuse it, he should have indicated that was the best course of action. He could have left the Chargers behind and asked for Inquisition support. He did not. He could have had the Chargers hold the other hill. He did not.
So when the decision falls on the Herald to determine what gets sacrificed, he has to live with the consequences of his actions, not the Herald's.
And I do not hold the responsibility for his actions post-The Storm Coast. That's on Bull, and Bull alone. He made his choices to return to the Qun instead of doing whatever else he could have done. That's his choice, either by his own free will, or because he fell back on his Qun conditioning and reasoned that was the best choice.
If anything, one could say by choosing the Alliance over the Chargers, the Herald might have reminded him that duty sometimes requires sacrifice. But I find it fascinating how many fans think it was the responsibility of the Herald to let the Dreadnought sink and ruin what was (at the time and with the information at hand) a good military Alliance for the sake of helping one mercenary under her command grow as a person.