No, in fact the terrible graphics took me out of the atmosphere of the game quite a bit. The fantastic graphics of Inquisition actually made me feel more like I was "in" Thedas than Origins ever did. Both stories have their dark moments, innocents caught in the crossfire, tragic waste of life, the cruelties of civilization crushing the poorer... it's all still there.
First things first: Everything that doesn't matter is still there. Wow, I'm so happy!
2nd: Funny how what matters to some is not the same that matters to others right? Still you and your "friend" seem to think that liking "subtle darkness" in a colorful world is "superior" to liking it explicit and raw in a brown world. So funny.
DAI is more "imersive" for people like you and A LOT LESS for people like me. What makes me feel "inside" the game is not a well built world but precisely what you refered to as "terrible graphics", supposing you refered to the all brown locations and generic gear. This "lifeless" world is my world, DAI is a world created by JPOP fans.
After Trespasser I enjoyed DAI but like I enjoy things from Japan, Korea and other simmilar stuff. From DA2 onwards it is impossible to take Thedas seriously for me.
But subjectivity aside compare armor design and buildings design and tell me which one is closer to real life? Of course if you selectively pick the more sober armors and building from DAI it fits real world perfectly but go for the most absurd in each game and honestly tell me DAO is not more realistic. Look at the most gigantic weapons in each game, observe battle animations and so on and please, tell me it is normal a 7 feet high "human" being jump from the top of a building and crush you with a maul even bigger than him...
And ok, I agree that DAO also had SOME unwieldable armor but it is not even close to the number present in DAI (since in DAI it is how the design is directed, towards impossible anime fantasy) and most weapons are very realistic, even the two handed ones (unlike the JRPG extravaganzza of DAI, Suledin Blade for instance)...
It is hard to argue with a person denying the difference in tone with green, yellow, pink and other colors of dragons breathing lightning and ice against a party in blue, pink and purple fashion outfits... or impossible armors... Jesus! Just compare Iron Bull and Sten! I can picture my adventure and my character in a world with a big guy like Sten, Iron Bull is just ridiculous disney movie. Also if it wasn't enough an Avvar jumping from a building(DAI JoH) or a Harlequin with super jumps (DA2 and DAI) we also have Meredith with super speed, super jump and all spark creating transformers (DA2)... sorry, not the same tone. Oh yeah, and a dude making a flotaing island in the sky because he wanted to float huge rocks to fight you more epically, he just was in the mood.
It is VERY hard to understand you people denying the huge difference between the games, seriously, because it is way too obvious. Now I understand people being able to feel darkness in DAI, when I remove all disney nickelodeon stuff from my mind I can almost see some bloody scenes as "dark", almost, but deny the difference is impossible. You can do it by comparing armor models, number of colors used in the game and their vibrance (seriously), how the scenes were presented and so on.
It is not about someone being or not able to perceive the darkness or "anything other than overt, gratuitous squick-like scenes will simply be dismissed as a sanitized Disneyland" (specially because this sentence proves there is a difference in the tone), it is because the difference is HUGE, colossal, gigantic, gargantuan. Ask your fellow designer if you still need to deny it.
So you like subtle "darkness" (which I call the Disney Nickelodeon Land), ok, no problem as long as you admit there is a huge difference and that is 100% ok for people to not like the same "darkness" you like. Meaning you fight for your Disney Nickelodeon land, me and others fight for the true darkness land, and one will never try to persuade the other because both are intelligent enough to understand it is about preferences and that in no way one will accept what the other think "dark". Easy.
There is no reason at all to try and convince people that the darkness is still there. IT IS NOT. Not what I call darkness and it is not something you can talk peope into, it is your perception of reality, it is not up for debate, it is not phylosophical, not rational, is if something activates or not or brain as stimuli. Seriously, it is like trying to talk to a gay person to become hetero... just quit it. No the darkness is not there for me, it is there for you and this will NEVER change because what strikes you as "dark" for me is a puppet show for my daughter. In fact I'd rather she watches me playing DAI than to watch Victorious or Sam & Cat, Jeanette McCurdy and Elizabeth Gillies are way more violent than Inquisition's most violent scene.