Let's not get sidetracked then (well, more than we already are).
I do, I'm talking about why they were included, it was to appeal to a supposed straight male player, that demographic is the one who gets the most pandering.
It's not about "grr straight male are evil", it just seem disigenuous that anyone besides that demographic gets accused to be pandered to when they get the tiniest bone, but straight male pandering is more often that not glossed over (even if that's changing, like with the whole Quiet fallout).
Straight people receive the most "pandering" because let's face it: most people are straight. A huge majority of people, in fact. A tremendous majority. While the true numbers are not and will likely never be known as they are exactly, most of the estimates I've seen place the percentage of gay people at somewhere between 10% and 15%, give or take a few percent, with 15% erring on the side of generosity. Your mileage may vary, that's just what I've seen.
Straight "pandering" is glossed over, as you say, because it is the norm, for lack of a better term. Again, heterosexual people far, FAR outnumber people who are homosexual. There is an evolutionary reason for this (one I hope I don't need to actually point out). That's not to say that there is anything wrong with people who are homosexual. I personally don't care either way which way someone swings, we kicked our biological need to constantly reproduce long ago, but the drive will always be in our brains, hence the "pandering" that you notice. The mere existence of heterosexual material is not pandering, like how the mere existence of homosexual material is not pandering. Gratuitous depiction of said material clearly demonstrated for the purpose of titillation, however, is bad. It's almost always out of place (unless you're watching porn or something) and is often so low in quality and unrealistic to the point of comedy.
I dislike pandering in any direction, I don't give much of a s*** who it's for.