No, it is more like "games are not real and full of pixels, they have magic, dragons and blue people. Also did I mention not real?".
This.
I'm part of the LGBT community, and I'm all for representation. Really, I am.
But I play games because they let me do things I can't do in real life. I can kill thousands of mooks with no legal repercussions, I can have mastery over gravity, lead a warship, and romance aliens. Letting me do the most amount of stuff is, in my opinion, always the better way to go, purely from a game design perspective.
Frankly, you ask me, would I rather have representation for what I am, or more options that are all inclusive of everyone, I pick the second one. Gender and race gating is how you get absurd crap like Femshep having a third of the romance options as Maleshep, or the straight female elf inquisitor having five romances to the human straight male's two.
Race gating doesn't inspire me to play character types I wouldn't otherwise play, all it does is limit my options.