Bioware has a disproportionately large female fanbase (relative to most other gaming companies), so perhaps it's simply that the female audience is actually a visible presence in the DA fandom. Besides which, Inquisition's female romances are a lot more interesting than the male ones, so there's that too. Still, if you want to watch a male Inquisitor Lets Play, I know Jesse Cox did a pretty funny one (every time I see a character crouching down, I immediately think of the Groundscrapers).
Surely im not alone in playing as multiple races and genders, right? I mean, I have four male Inquisitors, four female, all classes, and ive done all the romances. My canon Warden, Hawke, and Inquistor are all male, as they're all variations of me in some regard, but that's why we have non canon alts to play with.
This is the norm, isnt it?
I'd say the vast majority of players only play once. Heck, I think Bioware's own data showed that the majority don't even finish the game. BSN isn't at all representative of the typical gamer. I only played Inquisition once myself because there is too much grinding between the good bits, and there have been too many other good games released in the last year to have time to replay any game twice.