By that logic, there should be just as many straight males on the CDPR forums bitching about how Triss and Yenn are ugly.... attractiveness is relative, right?
...anyone care to check?
You missed my point, and I have yet another headache, so I'm not going to re-explain everything right now. Someone else can though, or you can try re-reading the last few pages more carefully.
Not to mention that BioWare didn't set out to make the perfect and universally hawt sex-dolls but rather created characters and made them look like real people with real quirks. Cassandra is a lot more universally attractive than say Iron Bull, Solas, or Blackwall but hardly anyone complains about their looks and it's certainly nowhere near the level of hate that Cassandra gets for having short hair, an angular jaw, and being modestly dressed. Male characters are allowed to have their looks reflect their character and are allowed a great deal of variety. Female characters are so often crammed into the tiny box of sexy, hot, seductive, and model gorgeous. That's the reason I end up playing way more male characters than female ones even though I'm a woman in real life. I can't identify with being a gorgeous doll who's main value is being beautiful and sexy. BioWare games are way better in this regard than most, but it's still skewed.
As for the first part, I couldn't agree more. It's a terrible double-standard. I have not seen one single person who likes male romance options and complained they were ugly in some way. Not one. Not even for Garrus
And yet, people complain about Cassandra or even Josephine not fitting their arbitrary definitions of "feminine". I wasn't on the forums when DA2 came out, but did people complain this much about Merrill having short hair (which didn't look as nice as Cassandra's, in my opinion)?
For the second part, I agree, though I would never, ever play as a male if I didn't have to. I am really sick of our our characters (and NPCs) looking like the "ideal" men or women. It's not so bad for the males characters though, because their built bodies make sense. For females, if you're only going to make one body, make is realistic! Make it toned like the male body, not some supermodel. I hate it and to be honest, I find it insulting. I can't possibly identify with being a male character in these games, but I also don't want to constantly feel bad about myself when I'm looking at my female ones. In some ways I always will, because they're awesome characters, but I at least don't want to feel like I'm worth less because I don't look like some "perfect" woman that almost only exists in a virtual world. And I know I'm not the only one who feels that way.
Adding 3 different body types would help immensely in this regard, as well as for role-play value and for character and NPC diversity. It's jarring to see two Inquisitors with very unique faces atop the same supermodel body, especially when everyone had to wear the Skyhold outfit. And it's pretty odd to see a bunch of NPCs standing around with the same body too. So I think this would be a great investment. But either way, please Bioware, in the next game, go for realism instead of "cuz sexy". You do better than almost any studio out there, but you still have things to improve upon.