BS. Brought up a particular way =/= hardwired.
Biological life on this planet has been around for approximately 3.5 billion years, hominds, a few million and modern ho/mo sapiens, between 200,000 to 100,000 years ago. Culture as we recognise it today has only been around for about 50,000 years.Considering the vast span of geological time that is hardly comprehensible to apes such as us who are lucky to live 80 years and the enormous degree of selection pressures exerted upon species upon species, including our hominid ancestors and early ho/mo sapiens, there are almost certainly hardwired psychological features of human behaviour and one of those is to protect females. For most mammalian species, the female is the limiting factor in reproduction, which means that in absolute terms of survival and propagation of the species, the female has greater viability than the male. A single male can inseminate hundreds of females whilst a single female is limited to 9 month pregnancy cycles after which she lactates and is bound to an infant for several years at the very least. We thus evolved recognising that women are more vulnerable than men (they are weaker, more sensitive to violence and danger, risk averse, etc.) and most importantly they are the limiting factor in reproduction. We have always taken women's safety more seriously than men's safety. This adaptive trait still lingers in us today and in the things we do, such as video games with violence against women. If you think this psychological trait merely sprang up from the aether and is random rather than the product of millions of years of natural selection and sex specific selection pressures, I have the Brooklyn Bridge to sell you for only 10 USD. Just send me an e-mail.