For example: why would you cure the krogan? or why would you betray them if at the very end you make them (not only from a biological pov but by asociation: cultural and ideological) just like you?
Well, that's the thing. I don't generally pick Synthesis. And even when you do, do we really have any reason to think that this results in some sort of cultural homogenization? The only actual evidence is that it now looks like Wreav won't be launching a war. Is that because he's peaceful, or because after his upgrade he now has the brains to figure out what a disaster this would be?
Or in the case of control: why bother creating a main villain (TIM) that is, from the very beginning of the game, acting completly against his own ideals..only to turn him into a martyr that was always right? from an authors perspective: you butchered a perfect character just so that could TRY (and fail) to make SOME sense out of the story...also, if he IS indoctrinated, why would the reapers let him tell us that control is an option (and from a developer point of view: why would you make that option the "good/paragon/blue" option if it was the villain's idea all along?)
Irony, I think. It's not going quite as far as the Dark Energy plot, where Shepard would have been the villain all along. But Bio was always thinking along these lines.
So again: I'm not against the end result of a particular option. I'm against the very existence of that option..i invested hundreds of hours! A lot of time that at the end of everything means nothing..since there is a last second decision that overwrites everything that i've done
Everything? If you cured the genophage, it stays cured. If you helped the geth exterminate the quarians, they stay dead.
ALSO, the only reason why i chose Destroy was because at the moment i believed that it was an indoctrination attempt (I still do) but with the extended cut and no more gameplay whatsoever, even if it ends up being correct they'll never show anything regarding the end of the original trilogy...so...i put my faith in Blast Hardcheese, shoot the red cannister, turn around and leave in silence..hoping that Androma MIGHT give me an answer that actually makes sense
You are doomed to disappointment on that last bit. The endings were exactly what they appeared to be.