@Phoenix The sad fact is that, since this is important to the fan base, unless they throw us a bone, we will be having these same 5 conversations for the next few years. Especially since neither side seems to have the slightest intention of trying to understand the other. I bet if someone outright asked we may get a reply along the lines of "spoilers". I'd be much more relieved if they just said yes or no so i can be annoyed for a year and then build myself a bridge in order to get over it.
But i agree that i don't really want the Qunari plot to be mixed with Solas', but that has already happened. The Qun do nothing without orders, so everyone who came after the Quis and Solas were ordered to do so. They want to kill Solas so they can "enlighten" the world. Since they failed once, they will be "fake attacking" Tevinter until they see an actual opportunity. With that as a background plot, and stopping Solas as the bigger plot, i'd be okay with it. To me, the Qunari will always make more sense with a Tevinter PC so i have no real issue that plot coming to head with another PC. I would just rather the current major antagonist (Solas) with a connection to a previous protagonist (inq) be ended together. The good thing about the Qunari is they are a threat to everyone, and a friend to none. That's very different from Solas.
Well, since you mentioned it I sat down and thought about a possible connection between Solas and Qunari, and came up with (i) the whole slavery thing, which Solas is opposed to on principle, coupled with (ii) the fact that a big bulk of converts are elves, because life generally sucks for them in Thedas, so they are looking for something better anywhere they can find it, which I think would rub him the wrong way, given how he reacts to Gatt during the quest
Demands of the Qun. Also, magic. Also, I think I just torpedoed one of my biggest arguments in favor of "Solas does not belong in the Tevinter/Qunari conflict"

BUT! Before I dig this hole any deeper!
Needless to say, I still cannot shake the feeling that the two would not mesh well, and here is how I pull that torpedo back. The Tevinter/Qunari conflict is depicted as this protracted, horrible thing that has been going on for
ages and has become more than just a war in the traditional understanding of the term (
i.e. an act of violence to compel the opponent to fulfill our will). Listen to Bull talk about the atrocities of the campaign, read the codex pertaining to Seheron: "
The goal is fear. The Qunari of Seheron markets must fear that everyone who serves their food is a rebel looking for a chance to slip poison onto a Qunari plate. The rebels must fear that every farmer they pass in the fields is a Ben-Hassrath spy ready to bring soldiers running. And the commoners, the peasants? They must fear everyone."
This is not war. This is a clash of cultures, of principles; a conflict between two polar opposites so intense, it goes far beyond a mere economic or political dispute. Each party seeks to achieve nothing other than the utter obliteration of its opponent, simply on the basis that they are the embodiment of everything that is an absolute anathema to their very essence, the very
idea of their existence. This is nothing so simple as hatred or struggle to achieve certain political goals; this is
abhorrence, and it has been fueling this clash for a
very long time.
Solas, on the other hand, is a (relative) newcomer on the scene, he has few ties to anything in the plot introduced so far
save for the Inquisitor, and absolutely no direct ties to that entire conflict. Throwing Solas into
that delightful aggregation of every war crime imaginable ever would be like tossing a frog at a powder keg - random, odd and ultimately adding nothing to the situation other than making the audience do their best impression of a confused puppy and go "huh? what?" Not to mention that it would cheapen the whole thing, which would be an injustice bigger than any of the parties involved could muster.
But you are absolutely right - I am just repeating myself at this point. I should probably stop posting in this thread if all I do is ramble like a broken record

Thanks for putting up with me thus far, by the way, I have been genuinely enjoying this discussion

Also, your remark on having the same 5 conversations for the next few years made me laugh. So true. Well, at least until we get an official announcement/confirmation. Until then - broken record it is