Thank you for bringing this perspective, Corey. I would love to know about any other games you play with your child. I truly believe that we need more parents like you (and as gamers age into parents, I think we will) who view video games as another activity for engagement and quality time.
I am especially curious to know how your 9 year old responded to Irenicus - was he too much, or was she entertained?
I am indeed a gamer. I play Baldur's Gate, Magic: The Gathering, Uno, and once in a while chess with my 9 year old daughter. I play the same games with my 13-year old boy, as well as War Thunder (on-line multi-player war game) and Birth of the Federation (space video game, multi-player).
Irenicus was not too much at all, and she enjoyed beating him up. Currently our run is deep into Throne of Bhaal (she's a human cleric, while I am a gnomish fighter/thief). The Tree of Life fight with Irenicus was pretty funny - I had laid down snares/spike traps around him, and then when Irenicus finished talking they immediately went off - Irenicus then talks to my 9-year old, and then says "YOU killed me" - it was not my daughter that laid the traps, my character did, but was funny Irenicus talked and accused the wrong person. My daughter got a kick out of that.l