Okay thanks. Interesting. I would agree that Cass is probably the most popular romance, followed by Solas, if going by these boards. And IB is one of the least popular, so it's interesting that you listed him. I guess if your qualifications are producing romances unlike previous romances in Bio games or any other video game, it makes sense. I personally don't like the lack of agency the PC has in it and that Bull dictates everything. But in a BDSM context that makes sense.
I think Cass is probably my favorite romance. First, because she is one of the few companions who feels plot important, similar to Alistair/Morrigan and Anders/Isabela. Not that being plot important makes a romance better than the others (Leliana was my fave DAO romance), but it helps to provide context for the romance within the story, rather than being able to separate the romance from the game and still have it function the same way. I could pull Leli and Zevran's romances from the context of the Blight and they would still work. Less so for Alistair or Morrigan.
Also, she is just one of the best written characters in DAI, if not the best. She is a realistic, fully rounded person, and her inner conflict with faith and duty resonates with the major themes of the game. And it's refreshing to have a devout religious person be open minded and rational about her faith rather than a bigot or dangerous zealot, which is common in games. She is one of the most "good" characters I can think of in the DA universe, and having her as a friend or lover gives my PCs hope for Thedas.
It would have been nice if a non-Divine Cass could have married the PC. Maybe with more development time that could have happened, but if they only had time for two romances to end in marriage, it makes sense not to include her since she has diverging outcomes.
Yeah, my criteria for what's "good" Would be something like,
Originality
Completeness (Solas, for instance, would be lacking here since he not only has no sex scene but also less content in general.)
Believability (anyone with magical/PC only bisexuality fail this for obvious reasons)
Relevance to the story/rest of the game (Cass and Solas would examples of this done well)
Content Equality (Doesn't have to be the same content, but the same quantity so you don't feel short changed for choosing this. Cullen and Josie have problems here due to lacking the last goodbye in trespasser, never being mentioned in banters at all, ect.)
General Appeal (Something designed specifically for a minority group that wouldn't be nearly as appealing to people outside the target audience would be an example of this done poorly, - although I think sometimes niche choices are good, because they can open people up to things they wouldn't have otherwise considered, and without this you pretty much couldn't have things like Iron Bull. But I do think it has it's limits.)
Obviously everybody is going to like what they like regardless of any of that which is great. But the criteria above is what made me say most DAI romances weren't good, because generally they all wouldn't pass very many of those. Then again, I suppose DA2 probably wouldn't either, so ultimately I guess you kind of have to find something you like and run with it. -shrug
I agree with everything you said about Cass though, she was really something else. I'd have probably wanted to romance her if I didn't hate the male Inquis voices so much and didn't love Freddie Prinz JR and Iron Bull so much. Which is quite the accomplishment because she's the first DA female I'd want to play a romance with, and only the second bioware female I'd want to play a romance with.
They definitely deserve many props for everything about her.
Not only a redone, it was a badly redone with scenes cutting out, animation cutting out, and dialogues cutting out. I was glad they got a new team for ME, I'd say good ridden. Beth's first try has already included much better options I could hope for in game than Bioware for several of their games. I'm just hoping for the best with the next ME game since it's basically a clean slate with new people and new universe.
What was cut out? I've only ever seen/heard about the heterosexual one so I wouldn't know, but I saw you mention that before so I'm curious now. It's weird, come to think of it I don't think I even see M/M Kaidan mentioned like... Anywhere outside of Pinterest.