Different strokes for different folks. Not everyone believes the game was about you said. Just like not everyone believes this is a character-focused game series. From what I understand the main theme was victory through sacrifice, not strength through unity. The ending follows through with victory through sacrifice, because certain people are sacrificed to achieve victory over the Reapers. If your EMS is extremely low, Harbinger kills your squadmates right in front of you. Then you move on to finish the job. Others are killed on the way to the beam. Mostly alliance soldiers.
Shepard makes the final choice alone because the Normandy picks up your squad before you enter the beam. Just because the mass relays were temporarily disabled doesn't mean people aren't brought together. Not every single person from every race went to Earth to help. Maybe a couple thousand. In the Extended Cut it shows that the relays were back in working order quickly, so this so-called disconnection didn't last very long.
If you forge alliances, the ending doesn't make that pointless. It's not like destroying the Reapers somehow un-cures the genophage and undoes your work. It's not like destroying the Reapers kills all synthetic life. Shepard is a mix of organic and synthetic (his implants). If your EMS is high enough, Shepard lives. In addition to EDI, because if Shepard was supposed to die, but he lives, then EDI and the Geth live too.
It's a fan opinion that the game was centered around strength through unity, but don't put the writers down because how they wrote the story doesn't match how the fan views it.
The best way is not to come across as a know-it-all-better-than-the-writers, because that would not be constructive feedback. And no one would really take you seriously anyway.
Actually Ive said the theme was strength through diversity, but unity works because you're bringing together these diverse groups. You could argue that victory through sacrifice was a theme of ME3 itself, but not really of the series as a whole. Sacrifice isn't the same as loss, however. Mordin and Legion sacrifice themselves for a goal. Harbinger killing your sqaudmates is your failure to be prepared. Unfortunately, it's your failure as a player as opposed to Shepard's failure as a leader because it's not connected to anything within the game world. You just didn't have enough points. The alliance soldiers are just faceless masses with no more impact than all the people killed in any other scene. This is, of course, one of the problems with the game. You're supposed to care about Earth but you spend the entire game away from it only knowing vaguely that things are bad.
All you said about Shepard making the final choice alone say what happened before. I know why they aren't there in a practical sense because I saw the evac scene. However, we're discussing the theme, so the question remains; why do that? Why remove Shepard's companions?
The Mass Relays only being temporarily destroyed was a change with the Extended Cut. You're right that not every single person went but it was far more than a few thousand. doesn't the Destiny Ascension alone have a crew of over a thousand? Anyway, it was still the major military might of every race. And they were initially stuck in Sol if the destruction of the Charon Relay or Citadel didn't wipe out the solar system ala Arrival.
I never said Destroying the Reapers undoes the Genophage or whatever, but Destroy certainly does wipe out Synthetic life. The Catalyst specifically says so and it's the entire cost or sacrifice of that option. Otherwise there is zero reason to choose anything else. Shepard's survival doesn't mean anything because he's only partly synthetic. Besides, that line is used in reference to Synthesis, if I recall correctly.
As far as it being "fan opinion", it's what the events of the series pointed toward. It's what they showed and what they were about. As someone else said, there are many contradictions where it appears that they forgot about previous events. The problem isn't that they wrote it differently from how I viewed it; it's that they wrote it differently from what came before. This whole last bit reeks of you grasping at straws because you can't actually argue with what I said, so the problem becomes how I said it.
Han, any moderator can shut down any thread if it becomes too off-topic. It doesn't matter if it's a main thread or not. I've seen this happen on many forums. You are making up things to cover the fact that they wanted to shut people out, but they didn't.
The leaked script wasn't even finished. It was a rough draft. It was pretty obvious it was.
You know, the IT crowd saying the ending is indoctrination, is no different than those people who preach about what Mass Effect was supposed to be about. How the ending breaks that, and how the writers are wrong and the fans know what it's about. Maybe that's headcanon too. Besides, author intent doesn't matter because they aren't going to be around forever. So in a hundred years, who cares what their intent was.
The damage control wasn't really necessary if people acted in a constructive, non-vitriolic way in response to this controversy. You guys kind of went a bit overboard. That's what happens when people get too emotionally invested in a franchise and when things go wrong, it's a deadly concoction.
Guaranteed, you wouldn't be able to do that in real life. Only on the internet.
Author intent certainly does matter but it's not everything. It could be that the writer communicated ideas poorly, or they wrote something that could be interpreted in a different way, as described in this article about a Frost poem. So while a different interpretation works, it may not be the story the writer was telling.
IT, however, is very different from what I was doing because I can point to events in the game that show what I said. IT, however, points to events that don't show what the proponents claim they do. It's not a matter of interpretation; it's a matter of not fitting the definition.
A lot of the "vitriol" came from being flipped the bird by Bioware over their "artistic integrity".