The "Shep's not gay" thing was basically this:
After ME1 was released, people complained a bit that gay male Sheps were the only ones who didn't get any romance options. Bioware (either Casey or Ray) responded by saying that it was because Shep is a pre-determined character and he's not gay. People responded that FemShep could be a lesbian and that's when he responded with the ridiculous "Asari aren't female" thing (despite being called an "all female" race in game). Basically, the argument was that since Liara's species is all-female, it didn't count as a lesbian relationship for FemShep.
Then, ME2 came out and FemShep could romance Kelly (even though it didn't count as a full romance). It was only then (after having no way to explain away FemShepXKelly as not being a f/f relationship) that they reneged on their statement and said that they'd address m/m content in ME3. All in all, it was embarrassing.
Yeah...that's pretty bad. And I'm not concerned with how the news took this stance, I personally dislike when a company I'm purchasing entertainment from makes offensive statements and then backtracks when the popular opinion changes. This is why I'm not sad Casey is gone.
Maybe Gaider had an enormous influence on DA's themes of liberal culture and ME never had that voice. Sci fi might also have broader appeal to shooter crowds so isn't as likely to embrace liberal culture. Broad generalization I know, but ME has always been less progressive than DA.
I don't know.. you could be right. But he said this not long ago. During ME3's development. Not before the series was created.
I can understand if he's trying to show how Bio is willing to do fan service rather than chase the bottom line, but he really didn't make a good case.
I wasn't a fan of Dorian. I personally wouldn't like the first gay companion quest to be about being gay. I have seen that plot have been talked about hundreds of times on TV. I would have liked for his story to be about him being something other than gay. You don't see Sera or even Samantha has a plot revolved around their sexuality. With Cortez, he has a dead husband, with Dorian, he has the gay conversion plot. This is why I don't have very good confidence with set sexuality, with the way the distribution and content were handled.
I feel bad not caring for the Dorian romance as it's clear that Gaider put a lot of himself into it and it's clear it was a labor of love. But no matter how much Gaider justifies it or defends it, it still does come across as an after school special on teh gays. There are other elements to his story, blood magic reform etc. etc. but the core of Dorian's story is about his sexuality, which is a shame.
I agree that the female same sex relationships haven't had as much of an issue in telling a personal story which doesn't revolve around their sexuality. I think male s/s relationships are still more touchy topics in mainstream culture, and the games romances feel like they're trying so hard not to offend the dudebros that they don't contain much of substance.