Greetings!
Apologize the weird title but I wasn't sure if it would have been considered spoiler so yeah.
Soon I have to endure that dreadful break up scene with Solas and I am not sure which option to take, anger or sadness. I have seen each version on youtube but still I can't quite decide.
You see, I am a bit of a role-player and I want the options to mean something to Solas. Now in the angry version he looks heartbroken in the end, but I am not sure what message that sends, does it make my rogue elf seems like a b*itch he shouldn't waste his time on because she acted like that? Considering he did say "It'll be kinder in the long run" about the romance. Or will he see it has a heart-shattering moment for him that his heart is angry at him and that her broke her heart?
The sad version makes her seem a bit like she might crawl on her knees begging him not to leave. Also what does Solas think of it? Does it hurt more on him than the angry version or does he think that she is pathetic?
I am aware that no option affects anything, he will break up no matter what. But, I just like role-playing and I not sure what message the option says. To be honest I'll love if Patrick Weekes would reply about what he believe would make Solas really regret his decision as well as wanting her even more, but I think that is more of wish thinking. Tho doesn't hurt hoping 
But yeah, what did you guys choose and why? What do you think the option sends of a message?
I don't think Solas holds it against you for being angry. I don't think he sees you as a "b*tch he shouldn't waste his time on because she acted like that." I think he understands that he caused your heartbreak (since he knew that he was planning on leaving from the beginning, but pursued a relationship with you anyway knowing it would hurt you, and now that day has come since you're hurt and angry), so he's not going to blame you for reacting accordingly.
And besides, why are you so worried about what Solas thinks of you? He's the one who broke your heart.
That said, I like the "angry" option for two reasons.
1) For the "Don't do this to me" option (where she says, "Tell me you don't care. Tell me I was just a casual dalliance so I can call you a cold-hearted son-of-a-****** and move on!") you get to shove him and walk away. As far as I know, in every other instance Solas is the one who walks away and leaves Lady Lavellan standing there sad and alone after breaking her heart. I like that the angry option allows Lady Lavellan to leave him standing there looking stupid and sad and alone instead of the other way around.
(As Rory Gilmore once said to Jess after he broke her heart, "I get to leave first!" "No, you don't get to walk away!")
2) As far as I know, only if you leave on the "angry" option, you get to confront Solas about the breakup later and demand answers. I don't know if this is still the case, but when I ended on the "sad" note back when the game first came out, there was no new dialogue with him after the breakup. You clicked on him, it was all the same stuff as before. If you chose the "angry" option though, you could angrily confront him and demand answers. He doesn't reveal anything, of course, (he is nothing if not elusive), but it is a great roleplaying touch.
That said, I love his parting words at the very end of the game for the "sad" option more than the "angry" one (Sad: "No matter what comes, I want you to know that what we had was real." Whereas with Anger: "You were right to be angry. I hope, in time, you will understand.")
So really, dealer's choice.