You know the funny thing? As I was reading this thread I am watching Star Trek Voyager Season 3 Episode 19 and Neelix just now was talking to Tuvok, a vulcan (you know, that [space] race with pointed ears) saying how he knows Tuvok hates him but he still respected Tuvok because Tuvok was stronger, logical, smarter and superior to him in almost every way but that he was tired of it.
So, I guess this summarizes the thread?
As for me I absolutely love humanoid superpowerful races, and I think humans are boring, I love Elves, Vulcans and any other space, futuristic, medieval or whatever other variation it comes. Why would someone hate someone who is better? They are better than us, we are no better than ants compared to them. If humans join like one billion beings and fight against other superior beings sometimes they could win, but they are still inferior, and I like it.
The sad part is that most stories actually try to show how humans can best their betters with effort, friendship, love and other boring human things. This is the sad thing. An Asari, a Vulcan or an Elf (one form before the veil like Solas), should just step on humans effortlessly, because they are more powerful, inteligent, magical (or biotic for asari or focused for a vulcan) AND have more experience (which never works for them, only for humans). Fantasy stories actually do a lot of plot service for humans show how humanity is all about being the best despite not being the best at anything at all.
As I said, humans are like ants (boring ants) and I'm ok with them overcoming better races by numbers (and only in some settings, in high fantasy setting not even 7 billion humans would pose threat to powerful beings) but in 1x1 confrontations or even in parties like DA, it is completely absurd to even consider a human fighting against their betters. I'm ok with that in DA because elven are only a faint resonance of what they once were. But seriously to think that a human can even pose danger to an Asari Matriarch makes me laugh. Same with RPG having 40 year old humans being able to fight and defeat a 400 year old elf master mage lord... so if I have to hate anything, I hate humans thinking they are the best, and I hate them hating other races just because they don't know how to lose, because they don't accept that they are like ants compared to other races.
I don't understand the point of this post. You even admit that modern Thedosian elves are NOT "better" in any way, shape, or form than humans, or dwarves or qunari.
I don't know how Tuvok was developed over the run of Voyager as I only watched the first season. Likewise with T'pol on Enterprise. However, one of the things I did NOT like about them (at the start of the show) was their attitude of superiority, which Spock NEVER had. He never believed that the mere fact of his being a vulcan (even half) meant that he was better, even if he disagreed with some of the more militaristic (read: violent) approaches to some issues. And neither did Spock's father, Sarek for that matter, who had more cause as a full-blooded high-ranking vulcan.
Tuvok and T'pol came across as bigots -- again, I reiterate, at the start of their respective shows. The thing that makes them different from Spock is that he knew that whatever genetic advantages he had as a vulcan, higher intellect, a stronger body (in earth gravity), and so on does not make him better, only different. If he thought he was superior he would never have regarded Kirk, the sometimes emotionally volatile Kirk, as his best friend, and praised him as a leader because of those very human traits.
Vulcans can be bigots, just like humans can be bigots, and DA elves can be bigots. Or they don't have to be. The choice is theirs. You might then say, "It's not bigotry if you are, in fact, superior, as Solas is." But yes, he is still a bigot in believing that he has more worth than other sentient beings simply because he drew the "right" cards at birth.