Oh yeah, this thread is awesome. Thanks for making me laugh!
Not that I fully agree with AutumnRose, because my FemShep was anything but weak. Well, except for the fact that she couldn't knock down Vega during sparring, despite being a fully upgraded cyborg who should have been able to take him down with a single punch...
Anyway, submissive doesn't have to mean doormat. Calling submissive males weak is usually a sign that someone doesn't really know what they are talking about. So yeah, the first post was... problematic.
The rest though... asking for a relationship where the woman clearly is in charge... I've got no problem with that.