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Can we get submissive male romances?


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#151
SentinelMacDeath

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Those are two seperate points. It doesn't say inorder to be a strong female lead we have to have a weaker male co-lead.
Defensive much

 

I'm not the defensive one. Getting your kink on by romancing a submissive man is perfectly fine but don't pair it with being a strong female. not that femShep was ever a weak female PC 



#152
AutumnRose

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what makes you so confident sentinelmacdeath is a male?


My default to online gaming/web is male. It's pretty obvious in his defensive stance.

#153
Malthier

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I have this weird sense of deja vu. It's like one of those troll threads where the OP constantly brings the subject back to the thing they claim they're not making the thread about, and acting like they can't understand why the thread keeps going back to the subject they keep making it about while pretending they have no idea why it's about that.

 

Yunno, like one of Skadi's threads.

 

Also, I'm getting one of those weird "someone conversing with their own alt" vibes, but no one would go to those lengths just to mess with a forum, so I'm sure I'm just reading too much into it.

 

oh c'mon. you dont really believe that.



#154
SolNebula

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Perhaps it's a well thought out commentary on the absurdity of the fanbase.

 

So you should take them seriously :P

 

I never thought about that perspective....perhaps you're right! :)



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:) sorry can't take someone called Tali's sweat seriously :) still you're funny! Much love!

Sexist AND racist? Wow!

 

I'll have you know that the 's sweat clan has a storied history among the quarian people. Your petty insults mean nothing.


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#156
SolNebula

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Sexist AND racist? Wow!

 

I'll have you know that the 's sweat clan has a storied history among the quarian people. Your petty insults mean nothing.

 

gasp....gasp.... Thieves you all! gasp..... gasp :)



#157
Beerfish

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You already got kaiden what are you upset about?  And femshep was more of a belligerent ass kicker than male shep.



#158
BohemiaDrinker

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 I'm really just hoping for a stronger female lead with a ship full of hot military men walking around in speedos.

 

There's probably a mod for that somewhere.

(If I remember Nexus, it may bundled with a bunch of extra hair options, too)



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Angry_Elcor

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oh c'mon. you dont really believe that.

 

I have never said anything sarcastically, ever.


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My default to online gaming/web is male. It's pretty obvious in his defensive stance.

 

up until the other day that poster went by "ladymacdeath."



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Hazegurl

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You already got kaiden what are you upset about?  And femshep was more of a belligerent ass kicker than male shep.

lol! How is that possible? They did the same thing.


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Malthier

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I have never said anything sarcastically, ever.

 

i was trying to play along but i guess it just came off oblivious.



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Also, I'm getting one of those weird "someone conversing with their own alt" vibes, but no one would go to those lengths just to mess with a forum, so I'm sure I'm just reading too much into it.

 

I've actually seen that happen before. They got caught when they forgot to switch accounts. LOL. 



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SentinelMacDeath

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up until the other day that poster went by "ladymacdeath."

 

the world might never know if I'm male or female


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Oh yeah, this thread is awesome. Thanks for making me laugh!

 

Not that I fully agree with AutumnRose, because my FemShep was anything but weak. Well, except for the fact that she couldn't knock down Vega during sparring, despite being a fully upgraded cyborg who should have been able to take him down with a single punch...

 

Anyway, submissive doesn't have to mean doormat. Calling submissive males weak is usually a sign that someone doesn't really know what they are talking about. So yeah, the first post was... problematic.

 

The rest though... asking for a relationship where the woman clearly is in charge... I've got no problem with that.


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Angry_Elcor

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i was trying to play along but i guess it just came off oblivious.

 

Always, remember, on BSN...

 

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Everything is a trap. It's like navigating a minefield. Nothing is safe!


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Malthier

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the world might never know if I'm male or female

 

not that its anyone's business. assumptions just bug me.



#168
DaemionMoadrin

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the world might never know if I'm male or female

 

I don't see why it should matter. Unless there's an actual chance to get into your pants in RL. ;)



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Calling submissive males weak is usually a sign that someone doesn't really know what they are talking about. So yeah, the first post was... problematic.

 

 Anyone who is submissive is weak. Male or female.

 

That doesn't have anything to do with leadership or deferring to a higher position though. Some guys just don't give a ****. Whatever. They're just doing a job.



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 Anyone who is submissive is weak. Male or female.

 

That doesn't have anything to do with leadership or deferring to a higher position though. Some guys just don't give a ****. Whatever. They're just doing a job.

 

You really didn't have to prove my point, I was already confident that it's correct. But thank you.



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You really didn't have to prove my point, I was already confident that it's correct. But thank you.

 

I'm not trying to prove anything exactly. Just talking.


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Malthier

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 Anyone who is submissive is weak. Male or female.

 

That doesn't have anything to do with leadership or deferring to a higher position though. Some guys just don't give a ****. Whatever. They're just doing a job.

 

i think you an daemion are referring to different versions of submissive ;)



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SentinelMacDeath

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 Anyone who is submissive is weak. Male or female.

 

That doesn't have anything to do with leadership or deferring to a higher position though. Some guys just don't give a ****. Whatever. They're just doing a job.

 

not really though, the submissive in a BDSM relationship f.e. is the one that's really in charge (at least in the ones done right) 

 

sometimes people just crave being submissive during sex but are, what's generally considered as strong, throughout their regular day. 

 

sometimes the job requires to be submissive, military especially.

 

There are many more examples, submissive does not equal to weak 


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#174
DaemionMoadrin

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i think you an daemion are referring to different versions of submissive ;)

 

We were talking about relationships, right? :)



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i think you an daemion are referring to different versions of submissive ;)

 

Probably.

 

Professionally though, I feel like it's a different thing. A lot of people are just specialists and care about their own thing. That's all I meant. But their attitude is never submissive exactly. Any job really. Not just the military.