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[HunnyBunnyRox77]

First, I was wondering after romancing Blackwall from Haven to Skyhold, and getting high approvals for the Grey Warden quest and flirtation, at what point or after what quest can you actually have sex with him? I personally am just curious if I can have sex with a character and then breakup or have them break up with me so I can pursue another character. I'm all about one and done with my Inquisitor EF and I'd like to close the game with Cullen. But my little Elven Minx has a healthy sexual appetite and I'd prefer not saving at a certain point, but continuing with the story arc after having side pieces all over DI. Advice??

[Addictress]

*milk sprays out of nose*

[almasy87]

Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that once you have sex with someone the relationship becomes locked and you cannot flirt with others anymore.

[YourFunnyUncle]

Something something Blackwall Tunnel. </londonjoke>

[HomerIsLegend]

[berelinde]

If you have sex with Blackwall, you are locked into the romance and can't romance anyone else. Even if you break up after Revelations.

 

I know, it isn't ideal. This, like when Solas dumps Lavellan after the Arbor Wilds, is the perfect opportunity to role-play moving on and finding a different romance, but it isn't possible. Sadly.

 

Also, I can't help thinking that a better title might have been "All I want from Blackwall is sex." The difference is subtle, but significant.

[thats1evildude]

Isn't the Iron Bull the only person you can have casual sex with? Or am I wrong?

[nightscrawl]

Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that once you have sex with someone the relationship becomes locked and you cannot flirt with others anymore.

It depends on the person. For instance, I know that you can sleep with Iron Bull and then move onto others. Because of this, if you're going to do a play like this you have to do (as in, do) the LIs in a particular order. Unfortunately, because of the way that the scenarios for for some of the LIs work, their relationships don't culminate until later on in the game, and also flirting with some locks you out of other romances. Because there are certain flirts in specific conversations, you're really constrained by when you can show your interest, and if you don't show your interest at that time, you lose your opportunity forever.

 

DA2 works in a similar manner. For instance, you are locked out of the Fenris romance if you first sleep (and perhaps even flirt?) with anyone else. Players who want to hit everyone have to start with Fenris first.

[nightscrawl]

Isn't the Iron Bull the only person you can have casual sex with? Or am I wrong?

 

Considering that everyone else has the vibe of building a romantic relationship, I wouldn't be surprised. You can tell Dorian that you want to "keep it fun," but the erm... "relationship" continues in that case. You can have a one-off with him, but I don't know how that affects other romances.

[vbibbi]

I thought f!Lavellan could romance Solas, and

Spoiler

after he breaks up with her

she could romance someone else.

[coldwetn0se]

I thought f!Lavellan could romance Solas, and

Spoiler

after he breaks up with her

she could romance someone else.

Nup...

Spoiler

F!Lavellan can only move onto someone new, if she breaks up BEFORE the Vallaslin reveal.

If scene plays out, and Solas leaves her, then the romance is locked.

[HunnyBunnyRox77]

Also, I can't help thinking that a better title might have been "All I want from Blackwall is sex." The difference is subtle, but significant.

Sorry if I wasn't clearer with my title...must have been a reflection of all that pent up sexual frustration from my Inquisitor Elf Female.

[stop_him]

I thought some people have had sex with Blackwall, but after they find out about his identity, they can move onto someone else?

[HunnyBunnyRox77]

[quote name="nightscrawl" post="20046307" timestamp="1453921578"]Unfortunately, because of the way that the scenarios for for some of the LIs work, their relationships don't culminate until later on in the game, and also flirting with some locks you out of other romances. Because there are certain flirts in specific conversations, you're really constrained by when you can show your interest, and if you don't show your interest at that time, you lose your opportunity forever.

Well, I definitely plan to have the Inquistor tap that (how many more corny sexual puns can I put in this thread) AKA "ride the bull," so if I basically have to follow a romantic arc and move forward til it's ends in sex, is there a way I can label the games in the saved menu so I know which one is what?

[HunnyBunnyRox77]

I thought some people have had sex with Blackwall, but after they find out about his identity, they can move onto someone else?

I think that has been the source of my confusion because I have seen many posts where the word "romancing" a character has been used interchangeably to describe flirting, having sex and (with some exception related to Iron Bull) having a serious relationship. I wish there was a better way to actually choose who you want casual sex or serious relations with.

[Tidus]

What's that barfing noise? Oh.. That's Camine..She got sick just thinking about that old man touching her..

[HunnyBunnyRox77]

What's that barfing noise? Oh.. That's Camine..She got sick just thinking about that old man touching her..

Enneaj likes 'em when they look dirty with a beard...think Aragorn.

[vbibbi]

Nup...

Spoiler

F!Lavellan can only move onto someone new, if she breaks up BEFORE the Vallaslin reveal.

If scene plays out, and Solas leaves her, then the romance is locked.

Ah good to know. I had heard that his romance doesn't "lock in" the same way as the others, so f!Lavellan romancing him doesn't register her as "romanced" so the Dorian/Bull romance never initiates. Bull must be holding out hope against reason.

[CronoDragoon]

I know, it isn't ideal. This, like when Solas dumps Lavellan after the Arbor Wilds, is the perfect opportunity to role-play moving on and finding a different romance, but it isn't possible. Sadly.

 

Probably for the best. That soon after a break-up, anyone is bound to be the rebound guy.

[CuriousArtemis]

DA2 works in a similar manner. For instance, you are locked out of the Fenris romance if you first sleep (and perhaps even flirt?) with anyone else. Players who want to hit everyone have to start with Fenris first.

 

Famously in the Fenris thread someone was able to romance all three other characters before then moving on to (and staying with) Fenris. I remember it well because they said they felt like utter trash for telling Merrill after sex that it meant nothing (it was like kicking a puppy) and also for breaking up with Anders after he says "I love you" LOL

 

Supposedly, if you avoid Fenris COMPLETELY in Act 2, go through the other three romances, bag 'em, shag 'em, drop 'em like hot potatoes afterward, then visit Fenris... he's up for it.

[nightscrawl]

^ Yeah that's really the problem I have with the whole scenario. The games don't present it as a casual sexual encounter, but rather as a stepping stone of the romance. I really don't know how you can look at Dorian's reaction when you say either negative reaction (particularly the "let's keep this fun") and not feel like a total a-hole.
 
However, then there's Isabela .

(If Hawke spent the night with Fenris)
    Anders: I can't imagine what Hawke sees in you.
    Fenris: It is done. Leave it be.
    Anders: Well, good. I always knew she/he had some sense.
    Fenris: Do not make light of this. Leaving was the hardest thing I've ever done.
(If Isabela is in the party)
    Isabela: Oh, will you two get over yourselves? You're like two dogs around a b**** in heat.
    Fenris: We were talking about Hawke. Not you.
(If Isabela is in the party and you slept with her as well)
    Isabela: Oh, will you two get over yourselves? I did her/him too.

[Ghost Gal]

Probably for the best. That soon after a break-up, anyone is bound to be the rebound guy.

 

Which probably explains why no one is open to romance after you break up with whomever. They see the Inquisitor coming and they're like, "Nope! I'm not gonna be the rebound guy/gal."

 

It's actually really funny. I haven't experienced this myself, but I think I've heard quite a few heart-broken Solas dumpees said they tried to rebound onto Cullen right afterwards (somehow they didn't get the chess scene until after the Temple of Mythal  ), but when they tried the heart icon ("We should do this more some time") Cullen gently rebuffs them by commenting they're still not over Solas. Translation: "I see what you're doing. You just got dumped and you're on the rebound and I'm not gonna be that guy."

[thats1evildude]

What's that barfing noise? Oh.. That's Camine..She got sick just thinking about that old man touching her..

 

Quit bullshitting us. You know you want to climb the Wall.

 

 

[Dobbysaurus]

This thread is offensive. Only wanting a person for sex!

 

How about wanting them for their inner beauty and feelings?! 

[Arshei]

This thread is offensive. Only wanting a person for sex!

 

How about wanting them for their inner beauty and feelings?!