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[Dai Grepher]

^Just a joke about BioWare's lack of concern for the actual plot.

[In Exile]

Cassandra doesn't give a chance, you do what she wants or it doesn't happen... That's my issue. I wish we could be able to open the romance even if we aren't willing to do it, and then we could surprise her, we could offer a big romantic thing like she adores because we wanted to do it for her, not because she absolutely demanded it.  

 

You've missed her point - and, in fact, even her defenders have in this thread. She's not telling you what she wants in you as much as she's telling you what she's actually like. Her point is that she's not always the gruff, tough, forceful person. And if you're not OK with her basically being an incredibly sappy romantic, and are not okay with a super conventional relationship, then your relationship is almost certainly not going to work out.

 

It's like someone saying "I don't want to have kids." They're not telling you to change. They're telling you who they are as a person. 

[Dai Grepher]

 

Romantism, erotism loses all its charm when you feel you are forced to do something because otherwise doors closed. This is my point. I want to please someone, not being forced to do something against my will in order to please someone.

 

The only time when we can break up with her is just after the sex scene. But then I had no reasons to do so at that time. 

Okay, I understand what you're saying. I just don't believe that Cassandra was stating a my way or the highway demand there. She was just saying she needed those courtly actions in order to open herself up. In that scene she showed that she was a bit flustered and unsure of how to act. It had clearly been a long time since she had even talked about her feelings.

 

Huh. That's weird. I thought it was always there. Well in that case I agree that it should have always been an option to break up at any point.

[Abyss108]

But i do. That's nice that you don't but if i'm dying i want it to be official so i can pass everything on to my partner and so she can have my last name. You know what would happen if i died tomorrow? My girlfriend of 5 years would get nothing because my family would claim that she has no legal right to anything involving my belongings or manner of funeral because we weren't married even though she's more important and closer to me then my family ever will be. Seems like there's plenty of cases around here of people thinking their opinions are facts.

 

OK, its fine that you do, feel that way but I doubt Cassandra is worried about not inheriting your name or money. She's probably more worried about everyone getting blown up by Qunari bombs. What if the time you spent organizing a wedding meant it was too late to stop the bombs and you all die anyway? She's also a massive romantic, and getting married just because someone is dying isn't romantic. That's just getting married because your hand has been forced. 

 

I know I wouldn't marry someone if they were dying. If my boyfriend of 9 years died, I wouldn't get anything from him, and that's OK. I'm not with him to get a payout.

[GoldenGail3]

Wtf? YES SHE DOES!

[In Exile]

OK, its fine that you do, feel that way but I doubt Cassandra is worried about not inheriting your name or money. She's probably more worried about everyone getting blown up by Qunari bombs. What if the time you spent organizing a wedding meant it was too late to stop the bombs and you all die anyway? She's also a massive romantic, and getting married just because someone is dying isn't romantic. That's just getting married because your hand has been forced.

I know I wouldn't marry someone if they were dying. If my boyfriend of 9 years died, I wouldn't get anything from him, and that's OK. I'm not with him to get a payout.

Isn't this presuming a lot about inheritance laws in Thedas? For all we know they have a robust common law marriage concept.

[Arshei]

Wtf? YES SHE DOES!

 

When you do her she imagine you are Regalyan!

[thesuperdarkone2]

Why are people taking the troll bait seriously?

[Abyss108]

Isn't this presuming a lot about inheritance laws in Thedas? For all we know they have a robust common law marriage concept.

 

Sure, I'm not the one who brought inheritance laws up...

[Merela]

Why are people taking the troll bait seriously?

 

 

I'm sorry, I've been waiting to use that picture for a very long time.

[AnimalBoy]

 

 

I know I wouldn't marry someone if they were dying. If my boyfriend of 9 years died, I wouldn't get anything from him, and that's OK. I'm not with him to get a payout.

 

 

Two things. Firstly, leaving something to someone has nothing to do with a payout. Frankly, it's kind of petty to assume that's what i meant. it's called making sure they're taken care of. Which doesn't have anything to do with leaving them money or physical possesions. It's about giving that one last thing/memory/whatever to let them know that they were the most important person in your life. (If that's the case)

 

Secondly, you and i obviously agree on nothing. Including marriage or this game. If i were dying and my girlfriend and i still weren't married we both agreed that we would absolutely want to get married before hand. Be it tomoroow or 40 years later.

 

Once again, i'm bowing out of a topic. People on this board take themselves way too seriously. I post here to have fun. Not get into freaking debates or arguments.

[Arshei]

Two things. Firstly, leaving something to someone has nothing to do with a payout. Frankly, it's kind of petty to assume that's what i meant. it's called making sure they're taken care of. Which doesn't have anything to do with leaving them money or physical possesions. It's about giving that one last thing/memory/whatever to let them know that they were the most important person in your life. (If that's the case)

 

Secondly, you and i obviously agree on nothing. Including marriage or this game. If i were dying and my girlfriend and i still weren't married we both agreed that we would absolutely want to get married before hand. Be it tomoroow or 40 years later.

 

Once again, i'm bowing out of a topic. People on this board take themselves way too seriously. I post here to have fun. Not get into freaking debates or arguments.

 

I think they got mad because I say Cassandra don't love them... That must really hurt that your manly girlfriend in Dragon Age don't adores you ♥

[Abyss108]

I don't see anyone here getting mad, just politely disagreeing. 

[Arshei]

I don't see anyone here getting mad, just politely disagreeing. 

 

I said hurt not mad, if they were mad they were going to throw insults.

[Abyss108]

I think they got mad because I say Cassandra don't love them... That must really hurt that your manly girlfriend in Dragon Age don't adores you ♥

 

 

I said hurt not mad, if they were mad they were going to throw insults.

 

Uhhhhhhhh 

[Arshei]

Uhhhhhhhh 

 

Me and my bipolarity.

[Illegitimus]

You can't deny she loves more her work than the Inquisitor.

 

<shrug>  Duty comes first.  

[Arshei]

<shrug>  Duty comes first.  

 

 

How is exactly "duty" being divine of a sect?

If she want to be the leader of this sect so bad, then just change the rules as did Leliana to allow you to still being in a relationship with the Inquisitor, is love as she claim wanted nothing for her?

[Abyss108]

Having the ability to make a massive difference in the world and help a lot of people >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Getting boned.

[Illegitimus]

How is exactly "duty" being divine of a sect?

If she want to be the leader of this sect so bad, then just change the rules as did Leliana to allow you to still being in a relationship with the Inquisitor, is love as she claim wanted nothing for her?

 

Cassandra thinks the world will be better off with a strong, reformed Chantry.  It's her duty to do what she can to rebuild it before Thedas collapses into religious factionalism and warfare.

[ModernAcademic]

Then there is the matter of the Divine, the worst handled in my opinion.

Yeah, I know Casasndra is altruist, but really she prefers use a stupid hat and break your heart than simply refuse being divine?

She prefers restore the chantry than the happiness of the Inquisitor and herself?

(I know others romances does the same, Iron Bull, Alistair, Cullen, Anders, Morrigan, Sebastian)

 

Why can't she do both? Most people can balance career and love life. And she's the kind of person to whom her career seems very important. This is evident from the moment you met her and continues to be so when you see how much dedication she devotes to restoring the Seeeker Order.

 

She'll always be fond of you, but asking her to sacrifice something she fought for and desires with all her heart just to be with you is selfish. 

[MisterJB]

How is exactly "duty" being divine of a sect?

If she want to be the leader of this sect so bad, then just change the rules as did Leliana to allow you to still being in a relationship with the Inquisitor, is love as she claim wanted nothing for her?

Some people actually take their duties seriously and respect the position and the responsabilities that it carries.

 

Cassandra is one of them, Leliana is not.

[In Exile]

Two things. Firstly, leaving something to someone has nothing to do with a payout. Frankly, it's kind of petty to assume that's what i meant. it's called making sure they're taken care of. Which doesn't have anything to do with leaving them money or physical possesions. It's about giving that one last thing/memory/whatever to let them know that they were the most important person in your life. (If that's the case)

 

Secondly, you and i obviously agree on nothing. Including marriage or this game. If i were dying and my girlfriend and i still weren't married we both agreed that we would absolutely want to get married before hand. Be it tomoroow or 40 years later.

 

I think what you miss is that not everyone views marriage the same way. I don't think marriage is a way of letting someone know they're the most important person in your life. Funny enough, Leliana makes this point about Justinia. 

[KaiserShep]

All opposed to Cass are filthy heathens.

[Arshei]

Why can't she do both? Most people can balance career and love life. And she's the kind of person to whom her career seems very important. This is evident from the moment you met her and continues to be so when you see how much dedication she devotes to restoring the Seeeker Order.

 

She'll always be fond of you, but asking her to sacrifice something she fought for and desires with all her heart just to be with you is selfish. 

 

Is more selfish romance someone and just break up with him because you prefer your new work

"Oh, you are the man I love!"

"Oh, I prefer be divine, see ya"

Is like she is playing with you.

 

Some people actually take their duties seriously and respect the position and the responsabilities that it carries.

 

Cassandra is one of them, Leliana is not.

 

And Cassandra really think she is doing good?

How exactly her idea of restore the circles are logical?

Was because of the circles that the war between mages and templar started, she is still distrust of mages because of her brother.

A Divine, as does her religion, must spare love and peace, not putting everyone in  "righteous" and stubborn faith.

 

All opposed to Cass are filthy heathens.