You are missing who my post is pointed towards. This has nothing to do with BioWare giving "preferential treatment." It's the fact that posters on this very thread are suggesting BioWare should give preferential treatment to other sexual orientations while excluding androgynous. This is something I find to be incredibly hypocritical if they want BioWare to be sexually diverse, yet they seem to preclude hermaphrodites because they are a "strange fetish." Perhaps I just misunderstood their point, but it came off as being on the ignorant and close-minded side.
I agree that the fascination with romance can actually take away from the main point of the game, which is the story and the gameplay. That being said, BioWare games are also about companions and relationships, so I can understand why romances are a common sense progression. I was just pointing out people want same sex alien romances, trans-species protagonists, etc. Yet, for some reason, inclusion of a hermaphrodite is somehow crossing the line. My question is "why?"
We are in agreement, although I do believe the ones you were aiming your post at were merely expressing their doubts with BW being able to portray hermaphrodism tastefully, which considering how they handled transgenderism, would not happen. I know you know that, but it bears being said, even in the more conventional romances BW has portrayed so far, it's not like we had our screens filled with genitalias. At most we had shots on the side of a boob or ass-cheek, nothing you wouldn't already see in some shower product advertising. The erotic scenes were tactfully done, and pretty tame, all things considered, certainly much less graphic than the various scenes of violence happening during the game. I don't see BW becoming more graphic than that, regardless of the orientation, gender or species of the LIs. In short, I'm sure we are all pretty safe from witnessing anything too explicit, at least regarding romances.
I was just pointing out that transgenderism isn't much more of a choice than hermaphrodism, or heterosexuality, for that matter. The transition, of course, is a choice, but it's the same for transgenders as well as hermaphrodites who decide to take this step.
As for Asari and Ardat Yakshi, I don't know. We have no previous inkling to such thing happening, either in codex or cut-scenes, and Morinth's suit was pretty tight. Like, painted on her. For me they were just mentally frying our brain with an excess of pain/pleasure, as unimaginative as it may sound, and didn't even bother with physical niceties. I don't see why we should necessarily have them be a bi-gendered species at some point of their evolution to try and rationalize their biology away. They are alien mono-gendered space-babes, who randomize DNA by mentally melding with their partners. That's enough for me.
Besides, I always thought Hanar might be hermaphrodite, although asexual reproduction is possible as well, considering how close to Cnidarias they look...