When I think of a "special snowflake" I don't think of someone who's simply good at fighting (especially in an unrealistic fantasy/sci-fi game) I think of someone who is unique in all the world. Someone who can't be replaced and is the only one in existence capable of saving the world (or solving whatever situation the game is about). Someone like the Dragonborn or the Inquisitor. If someone like Hawke or Shepard died then technically some other powerful fighters (including their companions) could just step in and take it from there (ex: in DA2 when you defeat the Arishok, Meredith and Orsino run in right after. If Hawke had died, the companions or those two would have been able to kill him). With someone like the Dragonborn or the Inquisitor, there is something special about them that makes them the only one who can save the world and everyone else no matter how strong or skilled or numerous they were would fail no matter what. I don't like this concept anyway but for such an important person to put themselves in harm's way on a whim, an unimportant diversion, or something someone else would be better suited for (or that underlings could accomplish) just makes it even worse.