You got to be kidding me? And it's funny you use Solas and Cullen as an exception to the rule.
Solas, Cullen, badass and strong? Alright, if you say so. 
Yeah, while I did appreciate how Bioware actually tried to make Cullen a character in this around instead of merely something to hang your towels off of, their attempts to portray him as some kind of expert military leader fell a little flat. Seriously, Bioware, he was the XO of a concentration camp. That doesn't make him Eisenhower, no matter how much you pretend otherwise.
Solas is a loser who has continuously failed to do what he had planned.
So there.
Indeed, as I've mentioned before, he's the Elven God of Complete $#@*-Ups,
Whatever, I punched a (would-be) god.

"I've had it with your condescending lectures!" 
Still doesn't change the fact that he's just an eggead who doesn't like the world. And sleeps too much.
Well put.
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I don't understand this thread at all.
Apparently, what makes a companion qualify as 'badass' is if they're independent and don't need the protagonist.... All right... Let's see how the women stack up:
- Leliana needs the Warden to help her figure out her own personality (whether she's Stabby McStabbin' or Sweetie McCupcake)
- Morrigan needs the Warden to help her fix her mommy issues
- Wynne needs the Warden to fix son issues
- Isabela needs Hawke to properly fix the tome/stealing issues
- Merrill needs Hawke to fix her mirror/demon issues
- Aveline needs Hawke to fix her relationship/duty issues
- Cassandra needs the Inquisitor to fix her faith issues
- Vivienne needs the Inquisitor to fix her dying husband/political issues
- Sera needs the Inquisitor to fix her snobby nobles issues
- Josephine needs the Inquisitor to fix her family issues
... Huh.
Indeed, and not a single one of them are lesser for it. Everyone needs help every once in a while, men and women, and there's nothing wrong with acknowledging that and seeking it out. Add in the fact that the player character is the hero, and helping people is what heroes are supposed to do, and this comes across as a rather strange objection.