Sorry to hear that, Lady.
Strangely, or not so, I've always been surprised I don't attract more hate mail. Or any, really. Despite the number of people I'm openly in contempt of and vice-versa, I haven't been bothered or harassed by PMs or such.
That's because frankly, you're one of the most articulate posters on the entire forums. Anyone coming up against your brains and wit would be like a one legged man in a sack race. I'm not blowing smoke up your keister, it's just the truth.
In general: I've read a lot of things on the BSN this week that have invoked negative emotions in me. Anger, frustration, irritation and others. I just caught upon the Gaylien thread and it's one of the few times the BSN has left me depressed. That and the post that was recently made in the Outline thread.
I'm glad it's the weekend so I can spend time with my husband. I'm going to lurk and get ready to write the open letter, but I think this place might be getting to me.