All y'all got these problems and I'm just here like "it would be nice if I could move my Xbox onto the nicer TV" and "sure wish it wasn't so hot out on the pool deck while I'm lifeguarding" or "now that I have money and stuff to do, its too bad I don't have a girlfriend to do that with"
Lol. Well, for that to happen, you'll have to be proactive. You cannot count on women to get the job done, believe me LMAO. It used to be my issue in high school a few years ago. I was shy and socially awkward. But then, I came to realize that girls ( for a lot of obvious societal reasons ) for the big majority of them don't hit on men. Even when they think you are handsome or are attracted to you. They tease, they give you some compliments, they send signals, talk about you behind your back with their friends, but nope, they aren't going to be straightforward, asking you for a date like we guys do when we are interested. She will be hoping for you to do it yourself, which I didn't several times and I paid a terrible price. So very often if you are blind to their signals or don't react quickly enough, it's very likely that it will end up nowhere lol.
Of course there are girls like that, that don't hesitate to hit on men, but they are truly a small minority, in 2016. Despite the appareances, women are far more insecure than men. So it's quite dumb to expect them to do the first step will all the baggages they have. So I'm really sorry for the guys alone in the world who are hoping that by just being nice to them, something will happen just like that and one day they will be rewarded for that, and they will be finally noticed for who they are even if they hardly talk to them, or talk to them in an awkward and bland way. ( well it can happen if you are lucky ) It just doesn't work that way most of time. That's the harsh reality.
That's why being shy and socially awkward is a real liability, unless you are super handsome. Those who are saying that it's not true are lying, have no idea what they are talking about or are in denial. For something to happen, most of time, the guy has to be bold and has to be able to take the initiative. if someone is shy and socially awkward or apathetic, he has to fight against his nature. That's what I did in the past. Everything has changed for me since then.
A certain racist poster seems to have made an alt in order to blow his own horn about said racist beliefs.
I'd personally ask N7 Phantom what he lived, what happened to him, where he lives to hold such opinions. I'd be curious to know what shaped so much what he thinks.
But then he is hardly rational, the same for his answers, he doesn't seem to rely on real life facts, just things of the past that he read on suspicious books. o in then end, i'm not really interested. I just wonder if get outside very often, if he sees with his eyes the world around him or if he just keeps reading things on internet and in books. When I go outside myself, it's just pretty much impossible to not notice that the world has changed. ( Though I realize that all places are not the same, not all places are tolerant, which why I wonder where he lives )
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That's crazy!
