That particular ending has been purged from my mind. 
I don't think I've ever had a more stressful 7 hours of gaming than Trespasser though. I was utterly convinced my Lavellan was going to end up dead by the end - it didn't help my mood after I picked that one "I don't want to die" dialogue option. I was all "Damnit, you have shown no sense of self preservation for the entire game, please please please gain one now and try to live" and clicked on it - Alix has this absolutely heartbreaking line which is something to the effect of "I don't want to die before I finish this", but theres this gap in the line before she says the "before I finish this" part. She only adds that in after seeing everyone look at her with this slightly freaked out expression where they have no idea how to react to the poor terrified girl and it seems like she only added that last part in to make it look like she wasn't freaking out quite as bad because no one else knew how to comfort her, and just ugh.
And then hearing her falling and screaming in pain for the last hour... And Dorian's goodbye to her before they go into the Eluvian the last time... and.. and... I'm ok, I'll stop now... 
Yeah... I'm with you. I had Sumalee's voice, but I also chose that line and the delivery in the whole DLC was also terrific. I mean... the screaming in agony, being helpless... It was so good, yet so horrible,
Do you know what I mean?
comparing is one thing, going off on tinfoil tangents is another. its annoying and silly
It certainly can be very dumb, yes. But I still don't like the idea of blatantly banning such discussions. I'd rather we be allowed to discuss real-life stuff and simply deal with the idiots as they come, but that would require more actual moderation, so it's not going to happen.
There are others physical objects in the fade other than the black city.
Some eluvians,the statue that was behind Flemeth
Uh... Okay? I never said things weren't physical in the fade - I was arguing that it is a physical dimension! I was simply pointing out that those physical things (with the apparent exception of the Black City) are shaped by belief, will, and perception.