Here is one reason why women love Solas:-

Here's another reason why women love Solas:-

I do hope that it's a joke. Because if it's not, it doesn't really put you in a very good light - I mean, it's not like all the 50 pages of this particular topic or 6k pages of Solas thread are ALL just about how much of a generous bad boy Solas is
And you've been there, discussing lore and character and story in tremendous depth or just making jokes or goofing around, and many times I got an impression that you've valued opinion of people there, since you sought it out on more than a few occasions - but apparently for you we're just shallow women who blindly love a guy for entirely superficial reasons...
You do realize that you are talking about developers who like to retcon ahd change whatever they like on a whim ? I mean, we are talking about developers who like to retcon so much that the ending slides of a game they make has been regarded as rumor and hearsay and not definite.
Huh, that's a shot in the foot if I've ever seen one. You're basically saying that in order for Solas to be an evil(ish) or irredeemable bastard they'd have to retcon his character.
So again this happens - people don't know how to go around author's words, so they suddenly have to start claiming that there's a problem with the story or how it's written (or can be written).
I mean... never mind the fact that retconning a specific and well-established character or their motivations - especially characters of this caliber - pretty much never happened, and would be a tremendously stupid move after an epilogue DLC that is at the very same time a very clear set up for the next game AND the fact that we already have reasonable evidence to suspect that it will be a very close continuation of DAI anyhow. I'd also like to point out that some of those interviews are recent, which means that as of 1,5 of year into development of DA4 they still hold pretty tightly to their vision or characterization.
Plus, the fact that they've retconned some stuff hardly makes them "retconning things on a whim". As it stands the world of Dragon Age is fairly consistent (add to that the fact that a portion of accusations of retcons is people simply not understanding the story or its elements), and even more noticeable retcons like Leliana being alive got a pretty spectacular (in terms if reveals) sendoff.
As for epilogue slides - umm, what are you talking about? Is it about DAO slides, which they've admitted they've gone a bit too far into the future, since at that time they didn't know if they'd be able to make even a 2nd game, or do you mean that epilogue slides are written from an in-universe perspective?
....So? Entire World Of Thedas tomes were written from in-universe perspective. That is hardly a point against how they're written... especially that, say, Trespasser epilogues can't really go into too much detail not for the sake of retcons, but Spoilers!