I agree with what you say, but it remains hypocritical in my mind. That is not necessarily Alastair's fault since he speaks what BioWare commands, but couple with his very first response to me in the camp when I ask if there are any other things I should know about and he says other than dying young and fighting the Blight by yourself compared to later things where he tells me later such as oh yes, you'll become a ghoul and go crazy. I didn't like the whining, but that took the cake in my view particularly since it usually comes up in my play throughs after I have killed the brood mother. After that I started taking a very jaundiced view toward the wardens as a whole.
And yes, I really prefer my other companions to Alastair. I never take him to fight the Archdemon. Usually I am too angry by then. I think part of it may be that the writers insist I must love the Wardens, and when you don't you really are getting their disapproval rating. It is another reason I leave Stroud in the Fade. He refuses to help with the Qunari business in DA2 because they are neutral. Of course Sophia Dryden is also a Warden set to overthrow the king with her demon army and we all know Clarice had the same ideas when she had the sadly familiar idea, admittedly put to her by the Venatori, of raising yet another demon army. Of course, any disapproval I have for these wonderful actions usually works against me as well although I am beyond caring what they (BioWare) wants me to do.
I do by the way give Blackwall to the Wardens in DAI. He sincerely wants to join, and frankly they actually do have a right to judge him since he pretended to be one. Plus his blind devotion to the cause aggravates me in that he does not see both sides nor, apparently, respect diverging views.
Ugh. My dark world view again.
I give Alister a little leeway because he's not the brightest bulb on the tree and credit his lack of full disclosure to be more from him being a rookie and forgetful on a matter he has pushed out of his mind, I don't think he was deliberately misleading.
As for the wardens, I pity them, their job is tough and they basically have nothing to look forward to, their fate is sealed. They live to fight a horrible enemy while they're slowly dying from the blight. I understand their isolation, it's hard to be amongst ordinary people who are able to go about there lives, while you yourself have no hope to live an normal life, it's easier if you close yourself off, surround yourself with those like you.and commit your existence to your duty. It's sad, really.
When you know you exist for only one purpose, you can become oblivious to other things because they aren't your target, that may come off as cold and uncaring, but if that were the case they would've abandoned their duty long ago. They know there're there to protect the world from the blight and they'll do it anyway possible.I can't fault them for their determination and I figure a good part of their bad judgement is caused by desperation and being so isolated has left them narrow minded.
I don't normally go through with Blackwall, I don't like his character but when have done his playthrough, I ended up giving him to the wardens too. My reasoning is he's a good fighter and the wardens would benefit from his experience, plus it seems fitting, given his past, to condem him to the life of a grey warden.