Well, America didn't want to fight the war at first. Nor did they want to fight WW1. They were isiolationists. And Patton was crazy. He beat up his own troops, when they had PTSD (PTSD as we would describe it now). Eisenhower demoted him for it.. His whole gung ho act was annoying even back then, in the midst of war.
There's no question Hawke wanted more than to just get by, but why are you comparing a guy trying to climb the socioeconomic ladder of his new homeland to a man trying to win a war?
Well that's why I said (Not Patton obviously) as far as making characters true he was quite over the top in addition to the swearing and well I mean looking at the speech it's quite a mess for all kinds of reasons.
But, the part about people saying Americans don't want to fight and calling that again ahem beeswax kind of struck a chord, there are definitely lots of people like that not just in America but wherever with the "not tolerate a loser, love a winner" sort of thing, even though they might say or pretend otherwise (I hate fighting, I never cared about being #1, etc)
Like ok, so (lets just say not Patton again, but just some generic kind of tough guy (or girl) personality) it might not be my favorite character, or many people's, but I'm just saying some of it all reminds me of Hawke (won't tolerate a loser, sort of thing), and like I think we all knows those kinds of personalities, and well, if nothing else I think they are entitled to at least some kind of respect for their charisma or ability to get people to follow them and/or things of that nature, even if saying they are rough around the edges for the rest of their personality isn't even the tenth of it.
And ultimately, if the only choice is between a pretend not version of it and the real deal, I'm not really sure why they shouldn't just be honest, given those two options. Hopefully they are as humane as can be as well, but like saying Hawke is would be kind of a stretch, Hawke just basically tears apart anyone and everyone they come across verbally at least.
Given that the theme for all the DLC and really DA:I and just everywhere in Bioware (cancelling Shadow Realms, etc) I feel as though that basically is the choice, the pretend not and the real deal, but the same themes.
I mean, I even stated I still found Origins superior to 2 for many reasons, or in an ME context that might 1 over 2, but that just doesn't seem to be the identity of the company at this point, or the fanbase, or people on the forums, etc, the people looking for other sorts of things have mostly disapparated.