Or maybe I just have too much faith in people. I expect better from everyone in general. Not just mages..
It isn't really meant as a judgement against the mages directly, just the situation as a whole. They left the Circles, which means they needed new places to stay. Where? Villages? Towns? Cities? The people don't want them there. So what then, roam around at random like the Dalish? That would require survivalist skills. They might be able to claim some remote part of the land that has been abandoned, but they would have to defend it from Avvar and such. Elven ruins? The Dalish might have a problem with that. Seeking asylum from Ferelden was a good idea, but they never really earned their keep. Then templars left the Chantry to kill the mages, which made their situation worse. I understand why Fiona would see moving to Tevinter to be an interesting prospect, but not at the cost of freedom. In any case, living outside the Circles would require the mages to sacrifice many of the conveniences they had grown accustomed to. Most of those who rebelled weren't prepared for that. Listen to the one mage who complains to Cassandra about the conditions in Haven. Listen to Dorian complain about how he had to camp in the wilderness for months (triggered by walking to a certain cave in the Hinterlands).
The mages had their faults, but even without them, the situation is stacked against them. Without an ally like the Ferelden monarch(s), the mages wouldn't have lasted as long as they did.
You might be right about the mage class being more interactive. It's funny, because the signature Hawke is mage, but I can't shake the feeling that Kirkwall was a rogue's paradise. While DAI was supposed to be their signature rogue game, but maybe magic feels more at home.
Actually, while I recognize that male mage Garrett Hawke is the icon of DA2, I think a female rogue (archer) Marian Hawke is the most fitting. A mage doesn't really fit the templar heavy Kirkwall.
Not sure how a rogue fits DA:I. Maybe as a neural party between warrior templars and mages? But the mage player gets way more dialogue options, custom story choices, and interactive roles. Even something as simple as action events like lighting Veilfire torches, casting magic to restore bridges or move debris, plug Darkspawn holes, operating the key making machine, etc. Much more relevant than breaking down walls, knocking down doors, or picking their locks.
Every Dragon Age game has worked in my favor on what class I picked for each character. Male Warrior Cousland for Origins, fit the story, married Anora and became king. Female archer Hawke, fit the story, was engaged to Sebastian, became Viscountess while also saving Bethany. Male rift mage Trevelyan, romanced Cassandra, fit the story.
Fear isn't enough of an explanation to them?
No. They had plenty of time to think about the situation. Many did not want to ally with Tevinter. Any who were afraid should have allowed fear to drive them to the Inquisition instead.
In the Hinterlands alone we see mages and refugees alike being targeted by the Templars and vice versa. A burned house with mages, bodies on the side of the roads, bandits scurrying on every well-travelled road, conflicts between Templars and mages at pretty much every notable location toward the crossroads, etc. And remember, not every Inquisitor has dealt with the renegade Templars and mages by the time they went to Redcliffe, so it is still possible they have the power mad apostates and Templars to deal with as well. The Hinterlands, if they decide to leave Redcliffe, is a dangerous mess to go through and they know it. Anyone with a half a brain wouldn't want to go through it unless there was a guarantee of safety (which they didn't have. The time manipulation Alexius resorted to made it seem like the Inquisition only had minimal interest in them and not likely to help).
Even with all that being true, slavery to Tevinter is not the option. If they were willing to accept that, then going back to the Circles would have been preferable.
Mages are not like the order, they have little military training and don't regularly deal with combat threats like the Templars. It is natural for them to be scared.
But slavery to Tevinter was also something to fear, and many did.
Then you have to consider the mages who consider it their duty to follow the First Enchanter. Just like many Templars have faith in their higher tiered position to make the right decisions, so too do some of the mages.
You mean Grand Enchanter. Yeah? How many? I would think only most of the First Enchanters of those Circles that rebelled. But how many is that? First Enchanters like Vivienne rejected the idea of rebellion. Asunder makes it sound like the vote was evenly split, with the tie being broken by Rhys. So figure half of all First Enchanters rebelled, then some did not support slavery to Tevinter, and many mages didn't either, and that's not counting the rebel rebels who went off on their own to cause havoc in the Hinterlands.
Plus, the whole point of having freedom is that you aren't obligated to anyone. Fiona helped the mages get their freedom, but she couldn't do anything to help them maintain it. They would have been better off abandoning Fiona to the Tevinters.
Protection was never mentioned as being part of (fake) Lucius' platform, ever... at least, beyond the acknowledgement that the Templars would not be providing anything of the sort. Ambition and violent purgation, that's the mission statement.
He said that Val Royeaux was unworthy of their protection. Meaning, Val Royeaux and other cities would need to prove worthiness first. He told the templars they deserve recognition and independence. That was the platform. That is why Josephine and Leliana plan to gain access to Therinfal by sending prestigious noble houses with the Herald. It forces Lucius' hand. If recognition and independence is truly what he seeks, he must open up to them.