As long as they keep making characters like Cassandra and Morrigan, I'm happy. Meaning strong females that will follow their own interests regardless of what my character wants. Merrill was like that too even if she was ditsy. She was still strong willed, though while I do adore her for some reason, despite being the type of character I tend to avoid (the whole little girl in a grown woman's body thing), she's an anomaly for me. I think I just like outcasts, lol.
Anyway, yea, continue making female characters basically, that don't revolve around me. As for "types", I'm not honestly sure, the archetype doesn't really matter much for me. It's more easier to say which types I personally don't want, and the only type that I really don't want to see anymore is the extremely promiscuous ones, be they male or female. Isabella would have been a much better character to me if they toned down just how slooty she was... it was rather gross in my opinion, same for Iron Bull.
There's promiscuity and then there's just being obscene. She has an actual itch in kirkwall named after her. That's ridiculous in my opinion. Promiscuous characters are fine, I love the curse like a sailor, rough "tom boy" hard drinking hotties, but I think they went too far with Isabella.
The young and innocent girls are very popular with gamers, characters like Liara and Bethany are pretty popular. Especially Liara, it could be because she has a big role in the trilogy. If you go by the waifu in Japanese games, the shy girls are usually the most popular one, I guess they give off the aura making people want to protect them. These characters are also the main LI in most Shounen anime. Personally, I prefer characters like Mikasa, someone who is a strong and can handle herself in a fight. I tend to like strong female characters, so the characters that I romanced are usually reflected that as well like Morrigan, Cassandra, Cait (Fallout 4). I'm just not into Jack, can't get pass the bald head, just too edgy for me, I guess.
There's nothing wrong with being sexually liberated, but there's a point where it becomes too much for my taste, so I'm with you on that, that is why while I like Isabela, I can't romance her or Iron Bull.
For me, in term of the guys, I have already described what I want, I want more romance in gay relationship, the guys I'm into are the guys they made that appealed to the women like Alistair and Cullen. Alistair is an adorkable character that give you flower. You know in films and movies, where the guys give flowers to the girls to calm them down or something, or Cullen a strong KISA, that have romance and passion in it where he cleans out the table and throw the inquisitor on it. You're straight, so I'm not sure if you can get what I mean, what I want is the kind of males you see in a romantic movie. There is a general lack of romance in the gay romance they write for gay relationship in general. If you watch Iron Bull's scenes, they're very jokey, people walking in on them having sex, Inquisitor can't walk for an entire day after sex, marriage is just a whatever, no cutscene or something like that with Cassandra. I like Cassandra because she's a hopeless romance, so she's just perfect for my inquisitor. I love romance in general. People assume that those who play romance is for sex and tell them to just jack off to porn or something, but it's more about the romantic story I can tell, how the characters end up together and how they will continue in the future. This is why it's not about the sex scenes, and I can't be with an asexual character, sex scene or not, because I can't imagine my character to be with someone in that type of relationship. My taste is more in line of what they give to the straight females, and it's not even about the grass is greener on the other side, it's because the types of characters I want are usually written to appeal to women like Alistair, Cullen, and Kaidan.