I did Solas's romance, but while it's cute it's...idk. Beside asking him 3 times about his adventures in the Fade and talking about Corypheus you don't have much interaction with him. (beside the romance related cutscenes and asking him about other stuff)
I mean, even tho I have now exhausted all of Dorian's conversation options, I still have 3 "talk" options left.
- Can I have a kiss
- We should end this <-- I'd never chose that 
- We should spend some time together <-- I know, that one is supposed to be the sex scene, but as I said, my Inquisitor told Dorian he wanted to take it slow, so he says other stuff and I love it
(Dorian: "Come, let's watch your soldiers hit each other with sticks, while I criticize their armor." Greed: What's wrong with the armor? Dorian: You're a little fast, aren't you? I made a list. Let me just search for it."
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As a Solavellan player (and a fan of Solas in general) it's a pain that there's so little content (Cullen was also last minute and he gets a repeatable kiss and also doesn't dump his girlfriend in a swamp or plan on remaking the world. I have my problems with Cullen but that's not one of them).
I'd like them to do another Solas-type romance at somepoint. Minus the dumping and world destorying. But it's something that feels fleeting and melancholy. Even in my first playthrough I though 'this isn't going to last' and I actually kind of like that - feeling like the protagonist isn't the centre of her LI's world.
Yep, you were one of the people I was referring to
Was it? I only came back to the forums after launch (although I never visited the Cass thread anyway) so I didn't know that. That does make me kind of sad though, because it really seems like Bioware should have made her available to women judging from who was actually interested in her. And they won't make another character like her in DA4, obviously. Oh well...
I'm not obsessed with Cass or anything (I like Cullen's character more for a romance) but it still seems like a shame to me. Although since I'm a masochist I did end up with this scene:
I'm pretty sure the thread was started by a bi woman, and for a while it was a mostly all-woman zone. It all got a little... heated after the announcement. It was locked for a while, posts deleted. I left at that point.
It's frustrating that she was clearly planned as a straight character from the start, but I have to question why it was vital to her character to be straight - having a former boyfriend doesn't change if she's bisexual, after all. There's no butch stereotypes to defy, since no f/f LI has actually been butch (Ash, Jack and Cass are all straight). And also being a butch lesbian isn't a negative thing (I know a few butch lesbians who are very annoyed at the lack of butch f/f LIs in BW games - see above point about the previous butch LIs). Hopefully the reaction of gay/bi women to Cass has made BW aware that women want this kind of LI, and they'll take that into account when planning characters for the next game.
Also, I got that scene too. Broke my Inquisitor's heart...