Look at this stuff, isn't it neat? Wouldn't you say my collection's complete?
Um, I'm not sure I understand the reference. Sorry. What is it from?
But I appreciate your input. I played both TW1 and TW2 earlier this year and I feel inclined to say the series has become my favorite RPG franchise. And yet I avoided it for the longest time because of all the stuff I kept hearing about it around these parts.
Does it cater to straight males quite strongly? Yeah, that's undeniable. But also blown out of proportion, IMOSHO. I mean, someone said before that Geralt gets to sleep with a lot of women, but after hearing this for quite a while I decided to check the actual numbers and, surprise surprise, found that in TW2 and TW3 he can have sex with less women than a male Warden in DAO (not counting prostitutes in any of the three games).
The first one? Yeah, lots of (mostly silly and bare-bone) encounters. Not broken up about their departure over here. But good God, people made such a big deal out of the friggin' cards. Before I played the game I assumed, based on what I had heard, that there was some kind of little gallery inside the game with all the women Geralt had slept with arrayed there and some kind of system to let you know how many cards you were missing. And at the time I agreed that yeah, that's kind of in bad taste.
Instead, what I got was a codex that included all of the characters in the game. In order to see a card, you actually had to look for the corresponding character, then click on the heart icon in a corner of their (regular, non-sexualized) portrait. I really didn't feel like the game was encouraging me to "collect" them. I imagine a completitionist might feel that way, but then completitionists are crazy
Instead, I just felt like the cards were some tasteful erotic art that served as a cheap (in terms of resource cost) substitute for sex scenes, which the game didn't have.
That's why I stated that I haven't played the Witcher and wasn't talking about the game in particular, because I can't objectively judge a game I haven't had any direct experience with. I don't even identify with the sentiment I mentioned 100% because I'm an individual, just like other women are individuals that may identify with some parts of it more than others or even not at all (Generalising is no good.), but let's just say I understand why some things are more appealing to some women than some others and why some things are downright eye-roll inducing for a lot of us.
I do appreciate different people's opinions on the matter, including yours, because I think that the more you know, the better to make the big picture, and having a polite discussion about it is definitely a better way to reach mutual understanding of one another and our differences than arguing about it, which is just exhausting. That's why I tried to explain my viewpoint in the first place.
I'm not sure how relevant it is to compare the Witcher and the Warden, though, since the Warden can 1) also be a woman, 2) has male love interests and prostitutes available. So unless the Witcher does that, DAO still wins as regards the kind of specialised content provided. It doesn't necessarily mean one is a better game than the other (As I said, I can't judge that yet.), but DAO still provides more content with and for the female PC.
And frankly, the idea that catering to straight men is problematic is what I find problematic. It seems to be implying that men can't be attracted to women and respect them at the same time. Would there be such a wave of offended people if Geralt was gay as they came and could sleep with a dozen dudes per game and collect erotic art depicting his male lovers? Or if the games had a female protagonist who did the same? Actually, there would be, but it would be from an entirely different demographic. And the people who find TW offensive as it is now would condemn those other people as sexist and homophobic. So why is it okay one way and not the other?
I don't think that anybody reasonable and anybody worth respect and spotlight actually claims that. The only person that I know made a fuss about these things is Anita Sarkeesian who's, in my opinion, professionally deformed to see sexism and misogyny everywhere, but does anybody that matters even listen to her any more? (Not saying she didn't make a few good points occasionally, but still.) That's one person. There might be extreme individuals that think that anything sexual that might get included in a game is wrong, but nothing so far has led me to believe it's more than just a few crazy examples.
Of course, I agree that demonising hetero male sexuality is wrong and there's nothing inherently wrong with sex and erotic content (Hell, women like that stuff, too. Just saying.), but I'm yet to see a game negatively influenced by that sort of nonsense. Other than that, there will always be a handful of extremists on both sides of the fence.
I'm not accusing you here, mind you — just pointing out my personal issue with the way people tend to talk about TW around here. Especially since the series has no shortage of great female characters and it has gotten increasingly better at handling women. Which is not to say I don't see why others would be put off by some stuff in the games, but I can tell from personal experience that dismissing them because of preconceived prejudice is a bad idea.
So I have heard from some around here and if that is the case, then I'm looking forward to the said great female characters and other good things I've heard about the games. I also don't think that any gaming company starts as perfect. They often need to figure out their issues as well as who they actually want their audience to be, some need to learn to think outside of the box of the established genre tropes and stereotypes (Not talking just about men and women here, but established, overdone, cliché stuff concerning the story, characters, visuals, and even gameplay in general.), etc. Although I don't think I can seriously blame anyone who reads a few reviews of a game and decides, "Hey, I guess that's just not a game for me." And I think that's okay because no video game can appeal to everyone. Some people prefer The Witcher, some Dragon Age, and some The Sims or Zoo Tycoon, and that's okay. That's why we have so many genres in the first place.