Anyway, more on topic again the tedious element in a lot of games and stuff these days for me is kind of the normalization of the RPG genre.
I actually don't really have a fundamental problem with the kind of goofball Arcade origins of games at all, those are the games I most strongly identify with, you know, the ones with no dialogue or whatever and just fighting with your ship with cool chiptunes in the background. In fact, still play those games, because they are often fun games (something modern games often struggle with). These characters were (at least perceived) as maybe more edgy or kind of unique or something perhaps.
RPGs were originally a kind of hybrid genre that combined the game elements with more cinematic conventional elements, but still retained sort of the "game" element as well.
However, a lot of people without much interest in games started to become interested due to the presence of such elements, and oftentimes would convert those RPGs into movies essentially, leaving things less interesting IMO.
It's almost as annoying to me as the comicization of movies, I'd rather not play a game or consume comics and then have movies be kind of the same thing personally. .