My 'kind of an insecure loser' remark was entirely mischievous. I have been very clear about my love of BSN, and the skill of the players here, and I of course accept that there are many competitive ones among you. The idea that your opinion wouldn't matter to me is kinda ridiculous - you're one PSN/BSN's greatest assets. I'm sure we'll run into one another here or in Andromeda.
For what it's worth, I don't disagree with any of what you say, and I approach the game exactly the same, right down to messages. I just don't check scores because I'm not interested. I will know the capabilities of the team within a very short time, with opinions usually confirmed by wave 3. I'm pretty good at predicting what a table will look like before it appears, because I rarely go Rambo and will usually try to remain aware of what the host is doing. I will be second in the vast majority of pug games I play, sometimes third, occasionally first and rarely fourth. I make for a pretty solid wingman, but ultimately I am an Average Joe, and I'm proud.
As for the wider concept of competition, I once had this debate with Cain too. What passes for reality from an American perspective may be different in other cultures. (Are there other cultures?!
) I am happy to compare myself to someone in terms of height or weight or objective values, but I don't seek to be better than anyone in any context. I try to be the best I can be. I can learn many things from other people, playing ME3 MP or how to fix a puncture, but to view what they do in a way that makes me feel worse about myself is pointless, just as doing something better than someone else should be irrelevant to me. I've learned things first hand from some of this game's masters, who are undoubtedly more skillful than me, but they've all seemed happy to have me as a regular teammate over the years. I have a bit of skill killing virtual aliens - it's really not that big a deal to me how much skill, as I'll have the knowledge that I've done everything I reasonably can to contribute to a successful mission. Successful missions make me happy. Some more than others, but it's my only real motivation. Ultimately, I would say a 'Mission Successful' message is the only thing that really matters. Objectively, you can't really argue too much against that. In my entire career I've failed two Gold duo GiPs with QMR, one GiP with Cato, one AHF Hydra Collectors Plat game with Cronshaw, Lucky's brand new alt, and Oni I think, maybe Ark, with lag and frame drop from hell, although I did bank the wave 10 credits. I don't remember a single other failed mission I've begun with a BSNer, except a bizarre SIlver duo with Stephen the Quarian fan when I was trying to teach him the Justicar / Acolyte. (Edit: and one other game with QMR and Mordokai which I refuse to talk about.) My pug success is obviously lower, but honestly not by much if you discount clusterf*ck GiPs. I do know I probably come across as a patronising old fart, but I'm just trying to articulate some of the core things I genuinely love about the gameplay, and what makes it so addictive, particularly in the context of this thread, and with the development of Andromeda in mind. Co-op has the potential to take over my life. PvP doesn't. But I don't begrudge you guys your desires.
I believe that universally, in nature and everywhere else, cooperation trumps competition, even though using the word trump right now feels kinda icky. That's where belief in human competitiveness being natural gets you.
I somehwat suspected you were joking, but I had to make sure because I don't know you. Competition isn't a destructive thing by itself. However I do not consider ME3 to be competitive at all. Even in speedrunning, which is the closest thing to competitiveness in this game, RNG has way too much impact to be taken seriously. This game wasn't designed to be a ground for competition. I do try however to reach my limits in the game, so I can do something that I would consider "impressive" (like a sub20 gold solo with a non-geth character on PS3). I'm actually pretty conflicted at this point about this, because "being good" against AI that uses the same strategy against you over and over again doesn't fit my definition of skill (please someone correct me on this), neither does RNG grinding, but I've put so much time into this game that I might as well do something impressive. I'll clearly need some DS2 pvp teraphy after I'll take a break from ME3 (I was referring to myself too in my original post btw, because I do suck terribly at Souls pvp
).
Just like you, I don't care about how much you score as long as you're doing the objectives and having fun. This is why I also love having people like you and most of BSN as teammates. I did run into you once shortly after joining AHF. Mexximal was hosting *shudders* and you joined as a second pug, but it was a long time ago and I had no idea you were a BSNer. I would happily play with you, especially after developing an unexpected krogan addiction a month ago ![]()
As many others said before, this (ME3MP part of BSN, the rest are disturbing) is the best community I've ever been part of and it's the reason why I'm still playing this game. Love the community's maturity and looking at the "age" topic and realising I was one of the youngest BSNers was surprising. The maturity, paired with the immature and over-the-top sarcastic jokes are the best thing about BSN. I always laugh when I see people challenging each other to Thunderdome (which I've always interpreted as a sarcastic reference towards competitive games). But at the same time, it's actually an effective way to settle disputes.
The best example of the community's awesomeness is that even though the only thing I enjoy in ME3MP at this point is soloing, I still can't refuse playing a couple of team games when I see some of my BSN/AHF friends online.





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