In every thread about a trans companion, there are people (you included, I shall remind you), who start with the panic, that people are going to lose options. While you might argue with Illyria about the definition of straight men, nothing in that post suggested that Mae should not be an extra option, and yet you still brought that up in the part of your post that I quoted. People berate Evildude not for his preference (I can't speak for Illyria), but for his idea that BW would forcefully educate straight men. The "giant, veiny man-meat" post was also rather unnecessary.
I can ask you the same about BW games. You are one of the most vocal critics of bi companions in BW games. There are loads of LGB NPCs in Dragon Age. Does that mean the companions are protected from criticism, like you suggest with FO companions? If you are satisfied with romance options and representation through NPCs, then why do you criticise that bi men in BW games rarely show same-sex attraction?
Yeah, because stating an opinion is the same as being panic. That's like an overreaction over statements people make. It's a discussion, so sometimes I bring up points or opinions I feel like the game should implements, and the discussion keeps recycled so sometimes my statements get repeat. I bring it up it because she said if it happens to be the core option, straight guys should just accept that, and no, they don't.
Beth games are not about pro-LGBT or anything, it's simply about giving people choices, and if you notice, I have often disagree with how out of all the male companions in Fallout, they all have attraction to females like MacCready similar to bi guys in Bioware, so I don't hold Beth with total immunity despite not focusing on the writing. I criticize it because they always jump to the default for bi males which is attraction to females, but I don't need them to have specific orientations for the companions in Fallout 4 because it's not what Beth's game designing philosophy is about. If there are bi NPC males that have attraction to other guys, then it would be pretty cool as well. If Beth has bi NPCs, I probably would have been just as critical in how they handle it.