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#401
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No thanx. Let this stay where it is.

Somehow some of you don't mind negative/stereotypical portrayals of homosexuals, perhaps you don't have a problem with it (not that I really care), but I really find said portrayals very old-fashioned and tiring.

I'd rather end this conversation right here, though.

Gah, this thread is not about homosexuals.



#402
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If the reason for not dating them is just because they are bisexual, that is biphobia.

No, since the straight men are not romancing the gay men not because they are gay but because they are not physically attracted to them.

Well I'm generally not attracted to bi LIs, that's not the same as bashing someone. It's about personal preference, not phobia, as I said I've romanced Kaidan and Fenris (and Isabela, Merrill, etc). A biphobe wouldn't do that.

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Gah, this thread is not about homosexuals.

But polyamory and promiscuity is often associated to them, so it's not entirely off-topic.

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Well I'm generally not attracted to bi LIs, that's not the same as bashing someone. It's about personal preference, not phobia, as I said I've romanced Kaidan and Fenris (and Isabela, Merrill, etc). A biphobe wouldn't do that.

 

I don't see why knowing that Leliana finds women attractive makes her less attractive.

 

I can see situations where it might be more attractive.


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#406
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I don't see why knowing that Leliana finds women attractive makes her less attractive.

I can see situations where it might be more attractive.

I was talking about dudes, I don't like Leliana's Chantry stuff but she's hot as Hessarian's burning blade.

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Just another day in bioware forum.

Yeah people love long discussions its seems.

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Yeah people love long discussions its seems.

and stupid ones.

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and stupid ones.

Aye apparently not liking negative stereotypes is wrong LMFAO.

But they think they're right yet haven't said anything against said homophobic stereotypes.

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I was talking about dudes, I don't like Leliana's Chantry stuff but she's hot as Hessarian's burning blade.

 

Well she has a french accent which is my weakness.

 

but I still don't really get it. I just used Leliana being that I'm only attracted to the ladies.



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Well she has a french accent which is my weakness.

but I still don't really get it. I just used Leliana being that I'm only attracted to the ladies.

I guess Fenris is the only bi male LI I've really liked, the only bi male LI in DA that has literally 0 stereotypes (Zev's chaming but still not this). I don't count Anders for the whole Karl thing (still waaaaaaaaay better than Bull and Zev).

Anyway, I favor monosexual romances for the exclusive content.

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I guess Fenris is the only bi male LI I've really liked, the only bi male LI in DA that has literally 0 stereotypes (Zev's chaming but still not this). I don't count Anders for the whole Karl thing (still waaaaaaaaay better than Bull and Zev).

 

To be fair, Anders is just a terrible LI regardless of whose pants he wants in.

 

Zev seems like a guy who isn't necessarily lust filled but rather finds sex to just be a tool. Kind of like a femme fatale if they were a dude instead.



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Aye apparently not liking negative stereotypes is wrong LMFAO.

But they think they're right yet haven't said anything against said homophobic stereotypes.

They've have to right to share their opinions don't get me wrong but the need to think before they do cause they gonna get busted by people who disagree. Most arguments I get into are because it doesn't agree with my morals and my conscience keeps poking me.

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To be fair, Anders is just a terrible LI regardless of whose pants he wants in.

Zev seems like a guy who isn't necessarily lust filled but rather finds sex to just be a tool. Kind of like a femme fatale if they were a dude instead.

I like Anders but more as a character than a LI (I kinda like the idea of a Mage crusader even if he's pretty much crazy lol).

Zev was somewhat cool, like a bisexual James Bond, but the commentary he did about "being educated in having sex with men" rubbed me the wrong way. A fun and interesting character still, one of the most memorable of DA (if Alistair was bi or gay I'd still prefer Zev though, Al is too much of a manchild for me).

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They've have to right to share their opinions don't get me wrong but the need to think before they do cause they gonna get busted by people who disagree. Most arguments I get into are because it doesn't agree with my morals and my conscience keeps poking me.

Yes of course everyone has the right to have an opinion, although some do seem to be against this.

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I like Anders but more as a character than a LI (I kinda like the idea of a Mage crusader even if he's pretty much crazy lol).

Zev was somewhat cool, like a bisexual James Bond, but the commentary he did about "being educated in having sex with men" rubbed me the wrong way. A fun and interesting character still, one of the most memorable of DA (if Alistair was bi or gay I'd still prefer Zev though, Al is too much of a manchild for me).

 

My undying love of Kasumi(challenged only by Tracer from Overwatch) should suggest I like the more lighthearted characters, so all my female characters romance Alistair because he's awesome.

 

I don't recall that specific commentary for Zev though I did agree with his whole "How will we learn to better pleasure each other if we never talk about sex" thing he talked about at one point.



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Yes of course everyone has the right to have an opinion, although some do seem to be against this.

I'm just against stupidity and immorality. It's just the way I am. I see somethin I believe is wrong I have to say somethin. I get that from my mother. My gruffness from my father. I'm allergic to bull$#¡t.
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@Cyonan Zev talks about that when talking about growing up in a brothel. He was trained to please both men and women sexually at the behest of the Crows. I wasn't comfortable with it either, to be honest. I'm not mad at all, just a little squicked out.

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@Cyonan Zev talks about that when talking about growing up in a brothel. He was trained to please both men and women sexually at the behest of the Crows. I wasn't comfortable with it either, to be honest. I'm not mad at all, just a little squicked out.

 

Ah, that.

 

I always figured that to be more of a slavery discussion since he wasn't given a choice in the matter. The Crows bought him as a child and were training him to become an assassin.

 

It was an uncomfortable topic because teaching children to have sex with men and women shouldn't ever be a comfortable topic, but that might be part of the point.



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I'm just against stupidity and immorality. It's just the way I am. I see somethin I believe is wrong I have to say somethin. I get that from my mother. My gruffness from my father. I'm allergic to bull$#¡t.

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Ah, that.

I always figured that to be more of a slavery discussion since he wasn't given a choice in the matter. The Crows bought him as a child and were training him to become an assassin.

It was an uncomfortable topic because teaching children to have sex with men and women shouldn't ever be a comfortable topic, but that might be part of the point.

There was that, for sure. The fact that the DA team went there with some grace speaks volumes about how they wanted to convey their message in that matter. Good point.

The other part though, and something I've heard expressed from some male bi/gay posters is that Zev had to be almost trained to be bisexual. He also shows a preference for female Wardens, pretty blatantly. It was almost 7 years ago though and the writing teams are trying to evolve. Note for the Iron Bull critics: That's why I used the word trying.

Back to the topic....It doesn't matter how the player feels personally about poly relationships one way or the other. It's just not feasible from a writer and developer perspective. The lifestyle isn't for me at all, but I'm not going to judge someone for how they are conducting their lives in this matter. I prefer and want to be with only husband. We don't want to share our relationship with anyone else. Some want to be poly and can make it work for them. More power to them. Those folks aren't effecting my life or my marriage, so I could give a toss.

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Best post I've seen today. Word of comedian.

Thanks man. And even if you don't keep comedian in your name, please keep Jedi

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Thanks man. And even if you don't keep comedian in your name, please keep Jedi

Given my joker nature maybe I should be reborn as Jedi Mind Trick LOL.
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Given my joker nature maybe I should be reborn as Jedi Mind Trick LOL.

That's not half bad. I like it.

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Back to the topic....It doesn't matter how the player feels personally about poly relationships one way or the other. It's just not feasible from a writer and developer perspective. The lifestyle isn't for me at all, but I'm not going to judge someone for how they are conducting their lives in this matter. I prefer and want to be with only husband. We don't want to share our relationship with anyone else. Some want to be poly and can make it work for them. More power to them. Those folks aren't effecting my life or my marriage, so I could give a toss.

 

Yeah it seems like a lot of effort to get it in from the writers and VAs since it requires multiple LIs.

 

Unless you do it like Bethesda in Fallout 4, but I suspect that was more just them being lazy because there is absolutely no dialogue about romancing multiple people. It simply just doesn't stop you from doing it.


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