To be fair, the Mass Effect team hasn't had a deviant gay or bi love interest. In the three games there is Liara, Kelly, Samantha, Steve, and Kaidan. None of those characters were deviant. Even the really minor ones like Samara and Diana weren't.
True, very true. You do hook up with Cortez in a club, but... that's pushing it. There's nothing else remotely stereotypical/offensive about Steve Cortez; I think he was a fine if slightly boring character lol
I hear the Sam/Shep love scene was a bit "OOoo yeah look at the two hot chicks in the shower!"-esque but haven't played it so can't confirm.
All in all I find the love scenes in ME kind of ridiculous. Even my canon M!Shenko, when they finally actually film it, it's kind of hilarious. Two guys rolling around in their underwear in the middle of my video game lol It's a bit silly.
You are right. It is not a dating-sim. However I'm not sure even Bioware realize that. In the end they included gay, lesbian and bisexual romances into the game just to pander to homosexual and bisexual fans ...........................
My eyes started glazing over, couldn't make it through your post; thanks for volunteering to be the next name on my ignore list 
One could argue Kelly was a quasi "deviant" LI. There was the implication that she was open to any kind of sexual interaction when Mordin said she had scale itch, which is only carried by varren. Granted, it's not a canon statement and hopefully was just a joke, but IMO it felt like the bisexual chick was again labeled as sexually deviant.
Really?? That is gross. But Haneko says it's not true. Hmm. Hopefully it isn't.
TBH there was obvious sexual tension between male shepard and Kaidan in ME1. So when Kaidan turned out to be bisexual in ME3 it kind made a lot of sense. Actually now that I think about his appearance in ME2 still has that tension from ME1. But Ashley was always cold towards female Shepard.
Haha agreeeeeeeeeee
After speaking to Kaidan, TIM asks (male!) Shepard if he's put his past relationships behind him, and you can snap "None of your damn business!"
That's some Captain America / Bucky Barnes "NO H0M0 BRO" sh!t right there 
I know. I'm just trying to be fair to both teams. The Dragon Age team had had more LGBT LIs and are bolder about it, so their track record is mixed. The Mass Effect team has had less LGBT LIs and are more playing the safe route, so their track record is better. At least in the deviant LGBT respect.
That's a good way of putting it.
Aye, they are not the same thing at all.
I don't want polyamorous stuff, really, when I want to watch orgy/3some stuff I'll just watch hentai/read smutty fics, but seriously relationships and crazy sexual fantasies are two entirely different concepts.
Exactly, why can't people get this 