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[SethGecko]

Good lord.... what hath thy stumbled upon!??

Forget chest hair, real men get hammered by 11pm.

And then (because of their manliness), they permit inferior, sober 'men' to take drunken pictures of them ....

Such as this:

[PresidentVorchaMasterBaits]

I still can't figure out how to post pics from my phone or I would have posted one of myself by now........and I like hair on girls. I find it attractive. I'm weird.

[canozzie68]

Good lord.... what hath thy stumbled upon!??

 

You really should knock first rather than just barging in..........

 

You don't know what you might stumble upon.

Or perhaps, be prepared to stumble upon the unexpected.... or out of context.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"I did knock!" Obscure movie quote.....

[Caineghis2500]

A random pic I had from a fail cam footage I did back in 2013... Why not 

 

[Deerber]

No one should ever have to shave their legs, it's tedious and painful.

 

Yeah well, some sports need you to do it tho :/

 

Liked for the beautiful husky   Good luck to ya bro.

 

 

Interesting climb there, Deerber. I've done some crazy stuff younger, but I could never do climbing like that. Those heights!

 

That's... Not really high XD

 

Heights are scary for everyone. To conquer that fear is one of the biggest appeal behind climbing, I reckon

[Dalakaar]

But I'm not lesbian or bi..... I only like my own lol.

Well if you like your own you like boobs too!

 

Real men like boobs.

 

Real women like boobs too.

 

Everyone that's real should like boobs.

 

I like boobs.

 

I like boobs also but I disagree with the rest of that completely

 

Trust me.

 

I like boobs.

 

 

***

 

On Topic, again.

This is me when I was 21(iirc) at a LAN party in Vancouver.

 

Very different look that I've since improved upon, but I love the smilesmirk.

[BioWareAre****s]

Me, being completely unattractive because I didn't put any effort into being feminine enough.

[Onewomanarmy]

Well if you like your own you like boobs too!

 

Trust me.

 

I like boobs.

 

 

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On Topic, again.

This is me when I was 21(iirc) at a LAN party in Vancouver.

 

Very different look that I've since improved upon, but I love the smilesmirk.

 

Wow, handsome as always Dalakaar 

 

Edit: You look like a movie star, I'm like.. speechless...  

[Teabaggin Krogan]

Femininity and masculinity are social constructs based on Western ideals. If you look at other cultures in the world, what it is to be a man (and therefore "manly") isn't necessarily the same as how we view it. Therefore, General is right, because manliness and womanliness are not globally applicable traits and can therefore only be defined as "what men/women are inherently like," which can simply be put as "all men are men and all women are women."

 

I was almost a sociology major. Then I decided to do something with my life instead. so I became a history major and then dropped out

 

lol wot? That's just not accurate. If anything the ideals of masculinity and femininity are even more deeply ingrained in other cultures than modern western society. Most traditional cultures have clearly defined roles for men and women and what is expected of them respectively. From what I've seen western ideals are more tolerant of people who're deviant in such behavior than a lot of other societies. Would you care to give any examples to the contrary?

 

So while I agree that masculinity and femininity are broad terms that can be subjective in nature, saying that they're not globally applicable traits and are based on western ideals is just plain wrong.

 

 

I drive the biggest diesel truck on the highway, with my lead-foot steel-toe boots.  And if you look closely you can see my chest hair poking out of my shirt.  Outta my way, ants.

 

 

I've always wanted to drive them big ass mother******* that bend in the middle and go shooo shooo when you step on the breaks.

[yrael]

 

[MeetYourNanny]

Me, being completely unattractive because I didn't put any effort into being feminine enough.

beatuy is in the eye of the beholder..cool pic

[Salarian Master Race]

I've always wanted to drive them big ass mother******* that bend in the middle and go shooo shooo when you step on the breaks.

 

I'll never forget that time driving through the heartland, Highway Patrol was merging from the entrance ramp, was matching my speed, and was a good 300 feet behind me.  All he had to do was drift to the left and be on his way, but he must not have been paying attention, because all of a sudden he slammed on his breaks and drove RIGHT OFF THE HIGHWAY and into a cornfield.

 

I just kept on truckin'.

[Teabaggin Krogan]

 

 

lol I understood your point just fine which is why I'm calling out the bullshit parts of it. But if you'd rather just roll your eyes and evade the issue completely, cheers.  

[Onewomanarmy]

Here is some more pictures guys! I'm around 30 years old on those, so a bit younger My ex husband took the first one at our old place, he loved taking pictures of me all the time lol. The second one I took myself with a crappy old webcam
 

 

[yrael]

 

Artsy like a grainy polaroid. Nice.

[Onewomanarmy]

Artsy like a grainy polaroid. Nice.

 

Thank you!! It's a bit bad quality because my webcam wasn't so good back then. Computers were pricey lol

[yrael]

Thank you!! It's a bit bad quality because my webcam wasn't so good back then. Computers were pricey lol

Shhh, just pretend it's intentional.

[Onewomanarmy]

Shhh, just pretend it's intentional.

 

Deal!

 

And out of likes.

[Scarlett]

 What I mean with too much vain is that in my life experience, I've come to realize that a pretty face and body in a partner can only make me happy for an amount of time if his personality isn't alright. I'd rather then be with a less attractive guy with an amazing personality., does that make sense?

 

Damn, it makes sense to me... The well looking guys I was with were all a real disappointment in the end.... *feel sad, will stop talking about that*

 

Nice discussion here, shaving legs and body ? oh my !   This thread is very unique lol

[Onewomanarmy]

Damn, it makes sense to me... The well looking guys I was with were all a real disappointment in the end.... *feel sad, will stop talking about that*

 

Nice discussion here, shaving legs and body ? oh my !   This thread is very unique lol

 

A 1000 likes

 

I'll be back to like this post when I get more likes

[MeetYourNanny]

lol wot? That's just not accurate. If anything the ideals of masculinity and femininity are even more deeply ingrained in other cultures than modern western society. Most traditional cultures have clearly defined roles for men and women and what is expected of them respectively. From what I've seen western ideals are more tolerant of people who're deviant in such behavior that a lot of other societies. Would you care to give any examples to the contrary?

 

So while I agree that masculinity and femininity are broad terms that can be subjective in nature, saying that they're not globally applicable traits and are based on western ideals is just plain wrong.

 

 

 

 

lovely post that could start a nice debate for which all if us would get a permaban

 

i agre with you all on all accounts

[Fuenf789]

Femininity and masculinity are social constructs based on Western ideals...

Eh. Nope - That just shows that you have not been long enough with other cultures yet. Other cultures simply have other "flavours". There are ofc some western people that belief a Barbie is the "ideal" feminine, just like they belief in a specific type of democracy. But we all know that is BS. What one experience on holiday for 3 weeks is not "culture", hence 2 years living somewhere outside one's own country should be a prerequisite for being allowed having an opinion on others' ideals.

lol wot? That's just not accurate. If anything the ideals of masculinity and femininity are even more deeply ingrained in other cultures than modern western society. Most traditional cultures have clearly defined roles for men and women and what is expected of them respectively. From what I've seen western ideals are more tolerant of people who're deviant in such behavior that a lot of other societies. Would you care to give any examples to the contrary?

So while I agree that masculinity and femininity are broad terms that can be subjective in nature, saying that they're not globally applicable traits and are based on western ideals is just plain wrong. I've always wanted to drive them big ass mother******* that bend in the middle and go shooo shooo when you step on the breaks.

True. Let's wait for the example.

At least support your argument with something like an example. (Unless it was really some outback TV station's opinion bestowed upon you. Never trust them people with many opnions that never left their hometown. )

I disagree with you Gen. It's a way to describe someone, just like the word "feminine", some women are more feminine than others or "womanly" for that matter, I don't think it's wrong to use those words to describe someone or have them as preferences.

Yep. Maybe it is on not something tangible afterall, neither something specific externally or externally. Sometimes its just the unique combination that exhumes feminity or masculinity. Moreover, it is not just the personality but a "package" of traits. One being that 1st and 3rd digit factor that is simply universally indicative deep inside our genes.

[HamleticTortoise]

Some of you are really quick to vilify yrael for something she didn't say.

 

 

Femininity and masculinity are social constructs based on Western ideals. If you look at other cultures in the world, what it is to be a man (and therefore "manly") isn't necessarily the same as how we view it. Therefore, General is right, because manliness and womanliness are not globally applicable traits and can therefore only be defined as "what men/women are inherently like," which can simply be put as "all men are men and all women are women."

 

I was almost a sociology major. Then I decided to do something with my life instead. so I became a history major and then dropped out

 

Take that first sentence out of context and yes, it does sound a bit silly. However, the point she is quite clearly making is that the Western ideals of masculinity and femininity are not shared around the world, that each culture develops its own sense of masculine/feminine ideals, and that we shouldn't be too quick into assuming that what we individually consider as standards applies all over the world. In other words, the contrary of what you are trying to pin on her.

Remember, this is in reply to the "chest hair are manly" debate. In other words, there is nothing wrong with someone liking that particular trait (or any other),  based on a local interpretation of manliness, but to suggest it as an ideal in masculinity in an international forum (such as this one) should be taken with the proviso in mind that this is not an opinion that holds universally.

You will notice that this interpretation tails in quite nicely with GeneralXIV's very well-expressed opinion, with which yrael actually agrees

 

I would like to apologize for dragging this out yet again, and in particular I ask for onewomanarmy and generalXIV's patience for resuming their previous exchange - I have read it with interest, and found both of your positions perfectly valid. I just don't think yrael's post deserves this kind of treatment.

Please resume in posting cute and interesting pictures

[prinsesbubblegum]

This thread... is going places.

 

Take this

Spoiler

 

Have a nice day!

[MeetYourNanny]

Some of you are really quick to vilify yrael for something she didn't say.

 

 

 

Take that first sentence out of context and yes, it does sound a bit silly. However, the point she is quite clearly making is that the Western ideals of masculinity and femininity are not shared around the world, that each culture develops its own sense of masculine/feminine ideals, and that we shouldn't be too quick into assuming that what we individually consider as standards applies all over the world. In other words, the contrary of what you are trying to pin on her.

Remember, this is in reply to the "chest hair are manly" debate. In other words, there is nothing wrong with someone liking that particular trait (or any other),  based on a local interpretation of manliness, but to suggest it as an ideal in masculinity in an international forum (such as this one) should be taken with the proviso in mind that this is not an opinion that holds universally.

You will notice that this interpretation tails in quite nicely with GeneralXIV's very well-expressed opinion, with which yrael actually agrees

 

I would like to apologize for dragging this out yet again, and in particular I ask for onewomanarmy and generalXIV's patience for resuming their previous exchange - I have read it with interest, and found both of your positions perfectly valid. I just don't think yrael's post deserves this kind of treatment.

Please resume in posting cute and interesting pictures

gawd u ppl are just all lovable and nice... i hate that... i need a drink